A fictional short story published in a magazine is being shared widely online as social media users discuss how much it relates to modern day dating.
Published in The New Yorker Cat Person by Kristen Roupenian has provoked an online debate about the main character Margot and her date with a man called Robert who has cats.
The story which includes a graphic description of an awkward sexual encounter has been shared on Twitter more than a thousand times and liked almost 2,500 times since it was posted online on Saturday.
Ms Roupenian has described how inspiration for the story came from communications she had with someone online.
In an editorial for the magazine, she said it was: "an excruciatingly bad date story and, I think, a kind of commentary on how people get to know each other, or don't through electronic communication."
In an age of dating apps, swiping left or right, and getting to know potential partners through social media, it seems Cat Person has resonated with a number of people, mostly women, many of whom explained the story's appeal on Twitter.
The "cat person" essay in the New Yorker is so bizarre, awkward, relatable and horrifying. pic.twitter.com/HESB6YcuYz— Farrah Alexander (@WineCoffeeLove) December 11, 2017
Another Twitter user posted: "If you think the New Yorker piece Cat Person was about a dude being a bad kisser, honey, please read again bc you did not get it."
Ms Roupenian herself has also tweeted that she is both bemused and delighted by how much attention her story is receiving: "I don't really know how to do justice to the conversation that is happening around my story but I am grateful for it," she posted on Twitter.
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So what is it about the story of a 20-year-old student's date with an older man that has captured the attention of so many?
The story's popularity suggests the main character's emotions reflect the experiences of many women in the dating game such as dating etiquette, insecurities and shame.
I had no idea how universal this series of emotions is for women. I didn't think other women had had an experience like this, and it makes me sad for all of us.— Jenny Talia (@jenny_tulls) December 10, 2017
Others shared their own dating horror stories as one user posted: "When I was 17, I went on a date with a 30-year-old. Nothing happened, but I can still relate to a disturbing amount of Margot's feelings here. It was strange and harrowing and a poor choice on my part. But it was an even worse choice on his."
Sometimes women want to have sex, sometimes not. Sometimes we REALLY ARE tired, or don’t feel well, or just want to cuddle! “No” does not necessitate an explanation. But we make women feel guilty for those no’s every day.— Twas the Nat Before Christmas (@NatPurser) December 11, 2017
Others however were not so taken by the story of Margot and Robert's romance. A number of Twitter users posted that Robert's character was represented badly.
The thing I hate about 'Cat Person' the most is that it's yet another narrative that reads emotional vulnerability in men as shameful and unattractive. There is no empathy for his experience. Just an underlying stigmatisation.— Kara Schlegl (@karaschlegl) December 10, 2017
Another Twitter user commented: "'He felt attractive for once, loved, accepted. She looked past his flaws and made him feel human. It was an extremely biased piece that has prompted a response whereby all men are like this."