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Session 26

Going to restaurants can be a wonderful experience… until the bill arrives! In today’s episode we are talking about the cultural issues surrounding who pays the bill.

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Activity 1

How to split the bill

Look at the Session Vocabulary – make sure you know what these words and phrases mean:

  • stingy
  • eat out


Which of these three countries spend the most amount of money on eating out?

a) Japan
b) Spain
c) France

Listen to the discussion and find out the answer.

Listen to find the answers. Then check them on the transcript below.

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ሰላም፡ እንቋዕ ብድሓን ናብ መደብ English Together መጻእኩም። ኣብዚ መደብ’ዚ ብዛዕባ እዋናዊ ኣርእስቲ ክንመያየጥ ኢና። ብእኡ ኣቢልና ድማ ብዛዕባኡ ንምዝራብ ዘኽእል ቋንቋ ከነስንቐኩም ኢና። ኣነ ተኽልማርያም በኪት’የ። ምሳናውን ስያንን ፊልን  ኣለዉ።

Hi, I’m Sian.

Hi, I’m Tom.

Tom, are you O.K.?

Well, I’ve just had lunch with Sian.

Oh nice! Where did you go?

We went for a Chinese, but Tom’s upset because of the bill. He’s being really stingy.

‘Stingy’ በቃቕ ማለት’ዩ። Was the bill a lot?

You mean Sian’s bill. She ordered far more than me, and then insisted that we split the bill!

That sounds like a delicate situation! ናይ ሎሚ ፈተነ ሕቶ እምብኣር ምስ ኣብ ደገ ምብላዕ ዝተተሓሓዘ’ዩ።ብመሰረት ናይ Euromonitor International, ካብ እዘን ሰለስተ ዓድታት ኣየነይቲ’ያ ኣብ ደገ ወጺእካ ብምብላዕ ዝበዝሐ ገንዘብ እተጥፍእ?

a) ጃፓን

b) ስጳኛ

c) ፈረንሳይ

ድሓር ኣብ’ዚ መደብ መልሲ ክንነግረኩም ኢና።

I’d say France! They’re famous for their food. They must eat out a lot!

Well, maybe you should move there then, Sian. Why don’t you go to France? They probably won’t mind how much you order.

Oh, Tom, will you give it a rest!

ኣቕራቢ ቋንቋ ትግርኛ
ኣብ’ዚ ቐረባ እዋን ናይ ቤት ብልዒ እንማቐሎ ክፍሊ ብዜና ተፈንዩ’ሎ። እስከ ናይ ሎሚ ዜና ካብ BBC Radio 4’s The Psychology of Money ንስማዕ። ብዛዕባ ኣከፋፍላናን  ኣመጋግባናን እንታይ ይብሉ።

I think we need some expert advice here and professor Yuri Ganeesi is the man for the job.  

If I’m thinking about taking about another glass of wine that will cost, say $15 and there are five people in the party, then if I pay for it myself, I think 'Oh, it’s $15, is it worth it?' But if I know that it's going to be divided by five, then I say 'oh, my extra payment for this glass of wine is only $3, I might as well take it!' And this way, people end up consuming much more. The problem is, of course, that everyone is using this kind of thinking and, at the end, you end up with a much higher bill.

Hmm, interesting. Correct me if I’m wrong, but I think that what the professor’s saying is that the more people go out for a meal, the more food they order?

That’s right! People assume that if the bill is being divided, they will end up paying less.

I still think it’s bad form, though.

‘Bad form’ በደል ኣንጻር ማሕበራዊ ስምምዕ ማለትዩ። Why do you think it’s bad form, Tom?

It’s bad form because you’re expecting people to pay for your own expensive choices! I think it’s just gluttony, plain and simple!

‘Gluttony’, ማለት ህርግፍና/ስስዐ ማለት’ዩ። I think gluttony might be too strong a word, Tom.

Yes, everybody makes mistakes! It doesn’t mean they’re gluttonous. Sometimes people might just round down the prices, or forget their side dishes.

Round down’ ዋጋ ምጽግጋዕ ማለት’ዩ። Perhaps they should try rounding their prices up, instead?

Exactly! So how do people share the bill where you are?

ኣብ ባህልና’ኸ? ሰባት ናይ ዝበልዕዎ መግቢ ሕሳብ ብኸመይ ይማቐልዎ።

And whilst we’re talking about eating habits in different countries, why don’t you tell us the answer to today’s quiz?

Ah yes! ኣቐዲምና ኣየነይቲ ዓዲ’ያ ኣብ ደገ ብምብላዕ ዝበዝሐ ገንዘብ ተጥፍእ ብምባል ሓቲትናኩም ኔርና። መልሲ ሓ) ስጳኛ ኮይና፡ ህዝባ ኣብ ዓመት ክሳብ 2184 ዶላር ንመግቢ የጥፍኡ።

You see, Tom! I bet the Spanish don’t have scruples about ordering!

‘Scruples’ ስክፍታታት ማለት’።

Well, they probably split the bill fairly, Sian! You weren’t very scrupulous about ordering earlier, were you?

Honestly! I can’t believe this. I just like to splash out on a meal sometimes!

‘Splash out’ ዘረውቲ ማለት’ዩ። O.K. I have an idea, why don’t we all go out after recording and really splash out?!

Great! And this time, if I’m only paying a fraction of the bill, I’ll order everything on the menu, just like Sian did at lunchtime.

It was delicious!

ቶም ምስ ገንዘቡ ዝመጣጠን ዝረክብዩ ዝመስል ዘሎ።ንስኻትኩም’ከ? ወጺእኩም ክትበልዑ እንለኹም ‘stingy’ በቃቓት ዲኹም ወይስ ‘splash out’ ዘረውቲ? ከምኡ’ውን ‘gluttony’ ህርግፍና/ስስዐ ከምኡ’ውን ‘bad form’ በደል ኣንጻር ማሕበራዊ ስምምዕ ዝብሉን ርኢና። Thanks for joining us and see you next time for more English Together! Bye! 

Meaning & Use

stingy (adjective)

Stingy is an adjective which describes someone who does not like spending money, and is not generous. 
He is really stingy so he never buys anyone a present.
Let's buy that car - don't be so stingy!

bad form (noun)

Bad form refers to an action that is socially unacceptable.
In some countries, it is bad form not to give a tip in a restaurant.
In Britain, it is bad form to visit someone without telling them first.

gluttony (noun)

Gluttony refers to excessive greed relating to food and drink.
You shouldn't have eaten all that - it's just gluttony!
That meal was just pure gluttony - I've never eaten so much!

scruples (noun)

If someone has scruples, it means that they are honest. 
I would hand in any money I found in the street - I still have my scruples!

splash out (verb)

If you splash out on something, you spend a large amount of money, usually on something you like.
I'm going to splash out on a holiday this summer.
splashed out on a new dress for the wedding.

How to split the bill

3 Questions

Choose the correct answer.

ቅኑዕ መልሲ ምረጹ።

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Over to you!

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ኣብ ዝቕጽል English Together ኣገደስቲ ናይ አንግሊዘኛ ዝርርብን ናይ ምስማዕ ብቕዓትኩምን እትለማመዱሉ መደብ ሒዝናልኩም ክንቀርብ ኢና።

Session Vocabulary

  • stingy

    eat out 
    ኣብ ደባም ምምጋብ

    bad form
    በደል ኣንጻር ማሕበራዊ ስምምዕ


    round up

    round down 
    ዋጋ ምጽግጋዕ


    splash out