Comments - Arranged marriage
I am really happy to read all your comments.Everyone has described the marriage system of their place.Thanks a lot for taking your time to comment on my post.
And one thing I want to make clear is I am not totally against arranged marriage system.I was happy to read Kieren, my teachers post about this topic.Without much explanation he has really understood what I meant in that post.
I hope that you will give the same response to my new post too :)
Now individual reply..
Thanks a lot for your comments.I understood all the points you told.I know marriage is not only a bond between two persons but also a bond between two families.
But this arranged marriage system is going on well in our country.I mean there are not much number of divorces.Girls wait for her person.She doesn't fall in love with others before marriage.After marriage whoever he be, she will treat her like God.
What you told is very correct.My parents used to tell wedding is not a bond between two individuals, but it is a bond between two families.
Actually sometimes I think this is a good system.Earlier we were not allowed to talk to our man before marriage.Only on the wedding day bride will be able to see him.But now it is advanced.We can talk and decide whether he suits us or not.So it is okay.
Thanks for your wishes :).Here also marriage is based on love and affection.The difference is after getting married only we will start to love.
I don't think I will fell in love with a stranger. :).Thanks for your wish.
True.I can understand my parents and they can understand me too.They have given me full freedom but I don't want to misuse it.I have the freedom to say no if i didn't like a person.It is not like they will force me to marry a person whom I don't like.They are very sweet parents :)
I like that piece of information :)
It is all luck right?whether it is arranged marriage or love marriage..and about slumdog millionaire..I have watched that movie.I will tell you what, India is like two different countries.Half of the people in a darker world and the other half in a brighter world.In that movie you can see the darker India.Come to India sometime :)
It is 100 % true. :)
Divorces are less in arranged marriage system.People adjust to their partners and live happily.They don't get divorced for silly reasons.
Thanks a lot :)..I too hope for the best!!
True.This is a way to protect our culture.
Thanks for your valuable comment :)..I too like a arranged cum love marriage. :)
Thanks a lot for your valuable comment.What you told about personal decision is very true.And you are only 37 rt?You have time to find out your right person. :)
Are you talking of the movie "Bride and Prejudice"? It is also like this.Arranged marriage is long lasting when compared to love marriage.So here marriage life is going on well.
I liked your comment.What you told is very true.And I am also not against this system.What I like is arranged cum love marriage.I am not upset ok :).My parents are really sweet and I hope I will get a good person :)
Thank you for your comment and also for your wishes :)
I took your advice :) I liked that saying "with a good luck".
Here, virginity is something which girls treasure like anything.If we lose virginity we even suicide.So having a sexual life before marriage doesn't happen in a large number.I too think this is the right way.Let me ask you a question.What if two persons don't want to marry after getting a child?I mean what will happen to that child?
My prayers for you to find out your right person.
Your English is very good man.So in which standard are you studying?And about improving English, you try to send a mail to bbc and you will get the chance to be a blogger or at least you can start your own blog.If you want any help to start a blog of your own, ask me I will help.Write a lot and your English is gonna improve.All the best!
True.What times :)
Is it your real name?Then that name is fabulous :)
I am hearing the medical test thing for the first time.I don't know when it is gonna come to our country.Due to large number of diseases I think this is a good measure.
I really really liked your comment.I have an E number.Yeah yeah so you are gonna find a person for me :).I will give you my e number after sometime.Now I am shy :)
I loved that kutti call :).I was in Hyderabad for more than one year.In hitec city.Where do you stay?
Wow..Globalisation in marriage is a brilliant idea!!
It is all luck..
Welcome.You try to send a mail to bbc and you will get the chance to be a blogger or at least you can start your own blog.If you want any help to start a blog of your own, ask me I will help.Write a lot and your English is gonna improve.All the best!
I too like meeting other people and their culture.Thank you for your comment.
If a person is having similar status as mine then it is not wrong to love that person.If he is in any other religion or something then it will not be accepted.
How swweet...I was really missing this
You are very correct.I know people who are happily living even after arranged marriage.
What you told about feel is very true.
You understood it :). I will go through that link very soon.Is it that site from where we can understand which type of person we are?Have you read Fountain Head by Ayn Rand?
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