Have you ever fallen into a reverie while sitting in front of a fire? The natural calming effect of looking into the flames produces clarity of mind, which allows us to see deeper into our thoughts and experiences. This naturally occurring process is the essence of the simple yet profound gift that meditation has to offer.
What was once a foreign word is now appearing on billboards and posters throughout our neighborhoods. There is a bewildering range of possible courses and styles, and people usually think it is something foreign and exotic. It often conjures up pictures of Asian monks seated motionless staring into space. But in reality meditation is as natural to us as breathing.
Throughout history we have been using the ancient art of meditation to penetrate the mysteries of our existence. We have learned that it is possible to train the mind with simple exercises that will increase our awareness. This enhanced perceiving carries itself into all the circumstances we meet during our lives.
That sounds very grandiose and you may well ask "but what will it do for me and my problems?" Quite simply you are not separate from the universe, you are part and parcel of it. How you perceive your environment affects the way you react within it.
The vibrant colors of an early dawn, mist rising from the stillness of a lake, leaves tumbling by on an autumn breeze. All these scenes evoke quite different mental states. So too do our thoughts and feelings.
The more we are aware of these continually shifting/changing mind states, the more we see how our home environment, occupation and relationships are affecting us.
This insight then allows us to see through the mirage of our personal problems and to get to the root of the matter.
We are, all of us, struggling to find better ways of living our lives. Often people get curious about meditation at a point in their lives when they are hungry for change. This can be at a time of crisis, a time of transition, a time when they are at a crossroads searching for new directions.
The fact is, once we have been fortunate enough to realize that we need to change, then we have already made the first steps away from suffering.
So what are the benefits of meditation? It has been shown to reduce stress, increase happiness, enhance concentration and give one a greater feeling of connectedness. By learning more about our own processes we are in turn able to help others to discover how to improve their lives. And they in turn will pass on the joy. Happiness is irrepressible and continually flows onward in its journey.
If you would like to begin to study, it is always much easier to learn from those who have gained some mastery over the subject. Working with a meditation teacher is a delicate dialogue. You need to find someone who can assess what type of meditation practice would best support your development and guide you with skill and sensitivity.
Take your time and choose well. Ask yourself questions such as - Do I feel confident with this person? Does he or she seem sincere, trustworthy, knowledgeable, and patient?
Meditation is not just about sitting practice. There are many types of meditation practice, each with its own virtue. Any meditation you do will fit into one of seven basic categories:
Breathing VisualizationPoint (or chakras)Sound (mantra)MovementDevotionalDirect essence of mindThe possibilities from meditation are immense! Why else would people have meditated for thousand of years? Developing a practice will require some discipline, but the fruits of your efforts will be immediate and far-reaching - beyond your wildest imagination.
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your comments
Phil Gardner
It is great to see so many people taking up the practice of meditation. In Cardiff we even have our own Tibetan laqmaq !!! Lama Rabsang of the Palpung Centre has been a monk for many years and is now teaching in Cardiff.PS Always check out your teacher before accepting them.
Nicola Paterson from Cardiff
I heartily agree with the posts about meditation. Anyone in Cardiff who would like to give it a try should go to Wednesday night drop-in meditation at the Cardiff Buddhist Centre on St Peter Street. Go to www.cardiffbuddhistcentre.com for more information; www.fwbo.org is another link which might interest you. I'm so glad I started meditating and learned more about Buddhism!
Greg Stewart
The most researched for of meditation is Transcendental Meditation. Over 600 hundred independent studies have shown its effectiveness. I have tried other types, but none seems to give the profound peace of TM in such an easy way. All too often meditation is described as difficult. It isn't, but it does require discipline. 6 million people, including 25,000 doctors have learned it. It's the best thing I have ever done.
Jeffrey Downes
Across the channel from the Land Of My Fathers I dwell amongst the cool pastures of productive Devon.
Often I chase the sun across the happy moor until my thirst is quenched at the waters edge.
My thoughts are self motivated, perhaps from the days of my youth, perhaps from the sun itself as I gaze upon it slipping slowly behind the Gower.
Inner peace is far from easy to obtain but do not fret for even in ordinary life you like I will find it with your mind.
When was the last time you loved a tree, when was it that you saw beyond your sight, nature for her sake.
Oh so sorry how can you for your life is far too busy to care about yourself and others too.
Please do not think you can't when even now you are halfway to meeting yourself if you read these few words
Alastair Adnitt
For info on drop-in meditation classes, day courses, and retraets across South Wales please visit the home page of Dharmavjra Buddhist Centre www.meditationinwales.org
Kyra White Trowbridge Mawr
I am a big fan of meditating.I have practised this technique for many years whilst working on my farm.I listen to whale and dolphin music which makes me relaxed and then I slip off and am able to de-stress from the stresses of bringing up my pet cows.
Pamela Morgan from Nanaimo Canada
Wish we could have a lot more sites on meditation and Buddhism. I wish the whole world would lay down arms and meditate. I wish there would be no need for our young to use drugs. I wish politicians to be more truthful and stop creating wars, be people that are looked up to, not made fun of. I know desire is wrong but that is what I desire.