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Unanswered Questions

By Sherrie Longton
March 2003, Llanfair
A digital story from Capture Wales
Sherrie Longton has questions about her family that she'd like answered.

Musical Introduction
"My mother was a G.I. bride. She must have loved my father dearly because she went to live in America with him, leaving behind her doting Dad. Six years later they were divorced. As I grew up Mum rarely talked about her life with my father, but she would occasionally throw up a tit-bit to my eager ear.

Once she told me how she thought she was getting fat and applied sandbags to her stomach to flatten it... and then she discovered she was pregnant with me.

She met my father at a ballroom dance.

I knew all about my mum's love of dancing yet I know nothing about my dad.

I haven't seen or heard from him since I was two years old. Was he a good dancer?
Mine isn't a unique tale - war has a way of affecting so many lives long after the fight has been fought, leaving behind unanswered questions.

As a child I asked no questions; as an adult I have so many. But sadly Mum died before I had got to ask them. Does he ever think of me?

I was born in Clarktown County Hospital, Las Vegas... doesn't that sound glamorous? I don't know, I can't remember that far back. But I do have a few photographs and a good imagination.

Sometimes, when things get tough or I'm just longing for some sunshine, I think about what my life might have been like if my parents hadn't divorced and my Mum hadn't returned to England. But I guess that would be one question that will always remain unanswered."

End slide - In Memory of a Special Mother.

Sherrie Longton

Please tell us about yourself?
My husband and I moved to Wales two years ago to have a change of lifestyle. I wanted to concentrate on writing and my husband, who is a retired schoolteacher, to find an outlet for his creativity. He is currently renovating our bungalow. We have five grown-up children between us.

What's your story about?
My mother was a G.I. bride. The story is about how she and my father divorced when I was two years old, bringing me back from America where I was born to live in England and the fact that I haven't seen him since and the feelings this evokes.
It's a tribute to my mother, but also, I feel it may reach out to other people in similar circumstances.

How did you find the workshop experience?
I found the whole experience utterly rewarding but most especially all the members of the team who were completely professional yet humanly warm and so very thoughtful. They worked so well as a team and they brought out the best in us.

Your comments

"Well, I too, thought this story very moving. I only wish my 96 year old aunt, who is Welsh and German and who grew up not under identical circumstances, but shall we say, in challenging times none-the-less, could read your posted comments here. Bill in Pine City." William Larson in Minnesota, Jun 2008.

"Absolutely moving storing, told by a wonderful mother - my mother - there are no questions unanswered between us." Melanie Wardle, Cheshire, England. Sept 2007.

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