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Running away is my only way out

Before you do it, talk to someone about your options. You can speak to people anonymously and for free by calling ChildLine or the National Missing Persons Runaway Helpline (numbers below). Being homeless is scary, cold and dangerous. Wouldn't you rather find out the alternatives before giving it a go?

Running Away factoid Government street counts estimate there are about 502 people sleeping outside around England on any one night.
Homelessness charity Crisis, 2006

I just can't stay at home

OK, these are your options:

  • If you're 16 or 17, homeless and in danger, Social Services have to provide you with accommodation, usually in a hostel sharing with other homeless people.
  • If you're under 16 and leave home, your parents are still legally responsible for you. If you're staying with another adult, they can apply for a residence order for you to stay with them if there's a clear reason why you can't return home.
  • If you’re under 16 and don’t have another adult to stay with, you need to talk to someone about your options. Remember that by law you've got to go to school, you can't claim benefits and you can't work full-time. Many young people in this situation end up sleeping rough on the streets. So before you do anything, talk to social services or call one of the numbers below.
  • There are also services aimed at preventing homelessness, by helping families sort out the reasons why teens want to leave home. So it's worth talking to social services before making any decisions.

Written by Ali Cronin

Last updated 17th June 2007

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YOUR EXPERIENCE

Claire, 14
I so badly want to leave my home. My parents argue all the time! I know it'd be silly to leave home though.. this article helped me quite a bit.

Kellz, 13
My boyfriend wanted to run away becuase his mum wanted to send him to boarding school but luckly i got him not too and just let him talk to me about it. He's ok at the moment and were hoping his mum wont make him go. xx

Hayley, 13
I have though about it in past all over a stupid row with my Mum, but no matter how angry i was with her, i couldnt imagine how heart-broken she would be if i went missing.Think how upset you would be if you had a child that ran away, before you do something like that

dougie, 15
i ran away once for a few hours and my mum was so upset that i hadn't come home. it is not something i will probably do again cos i upset her more than the reason for running away should have caused

Emily, 14
I can't imagine the emotional battering that runaways have had to go through. I would have to be pushed very far to ever even think about running away...


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