Attitude, Tone and Ideas
Much of the meaning of a poem is conveyed by the attitude it expresses toward its subject matter. 'Attitude' can be thought of as a combination of the poet's tone of voice, and the ideas he or she is trying to get across to the reader.
A good way to decide on the tone of a poem is to work out how you would read it aloud. How would you read this poem?
- admiringly, and with gratitude for the way her mother livened up her childhood - 'You'd teach me the steps on the way home from Mass'
- wistfully, dwelling on the poet's own memories ('I remember my hands in those red high-heeled shoes') and imaginings ('your ghost clatters towards me')
- ironically - contrasting the short-lived glamour of her mother's teenage life with the hard reality of motherhood
- affectionately - almost a love poem to her mother
Any of these tones would work. In fact the tone [tone: The mood or manner of a text or part of a text. The author's 'tone of voice' or way in which they expect to be understood. The emotional load carried by a text. ] shifts subtly from one to another, ending on a note of enduring love between daughter and mother - "That glamorous love"
that lasts.
Ideas

Picture courtesy of David Williams
The following ideas are all contained within the poem. Which do you think come across most strongly?
- The poet romanticises her mother and the glamorous life she used to lead.
- The poet longs to see her mother as she once was, before she was tied down with motherhood.
- The poet recognises that all mothers have mothers - her mother's mother used to 'stand at the close with a hiding for the late one', perhaps as the poet's mother now watches out for her...
- The poet is re-examining her own feelings as a daughter.