Are you in an abusive relationship? Davina James-Hanman If you're reading this section, chances are you already know your relationship isn't healthy. All relationships have their ups and downs but there are certain types of behaviour which are unacceptable and abusive.

Domestic violence is not just physical abuse. It can also be psychological or emotional bullying. If you're worried you may be in an abusive relationship, have a look at the links below:

• Assess your relationship with our quick test
• Warning Signs
• Common things abusers say
• Common abusive behaviours

If after reading this section you decide that you are, or might be, in an abusive relationship, there's a lot of information on the rest of this site that will help you to think through your options.

If you're a young adult in this situation, have a look at One Life

Please note: Why this site refers mainly to women

This article was last reviewed by Catherine Orr Deas in December 2005.
First published in February 2003.