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What is domestic violence?

Davina James-Hanman


Domestic violence is a pattern of controlling and aggressive behaviours from one adult, usually a man, towards another, usually a woman, within the context of an intimate relationship.

  • It can be physical, sexual, psychological or emotional abuse. Financial abuse and social isolation are also common features.

  • The violence and abuse can be actual or threatened and can happen once every so often or on a regular basis.

  • It can happen to anyone, and in all kinds of relationships - heterosexual, lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT). People suffer domestic violence regardless of their social group, class, age, race, disability, sexuality or lifestyle. The abuse can begin at any time - in new relationships or after many years spent together.

  • Children are affected by domestic violence both in the short and the long term.

  • Less frequently but still wholly unacceptable, men are abused by their partners, both male and female. (See Men as victims for more details).

  • All forms of abuse - psychological, economic, emotional and physical - come from the abuser’s desire for power and control.

If you're experiencing domestic violence have a look at If domestic violence is happening to you for help and support.

If you're a young adult in this situation, see One life.

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This article was last reviewed by Catherine Orr Deas in December 2005.
First published in February 2003.


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