What is domestic violence? Many myths surround domestic violence. So how many people are affected, who are the main perpetrators and is there any help available?

Facts and definitions

• What is domestic violence?
• Imagine what it's like
• Why this site refers mainly to women

Common myths

There are lots of myths and stereotypes about domestic violence. The facts are very different...

• She could just leave
• It mainly happens to poor women on council estates
• It's alcohol that causes men to be violent
• Abused women must have done something to deserve it
• Certain women attract violent men
• Abusers were abused themselves
• Violent men can't change
• Domestic violence is quite rare.
• If children don't see the violence, they won't be affected
• You shouldn't get involved in other people's rows
• Do violent song lyrics glorify domestic violence?

Young adults and domestic violence

• One Life - information, support and advice for young people