Death of a pet Losing a much-loved pet is generally taken far less seriously than losing a person, and yet when a pet has been with you for some time, you lose a relationship and a friend. Dr Ann Dent offers some sound advice.

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Losing a pet

When you lose a pet you've loved and who's been a constant companion for some years, you'll experience grief similar to that of losing a friend or family member. Children may find it especially difficult.

I long to stroke his live body

"The pain comes from deep within and wells up to be released in tears and bursts of agony," is how one bereaved pet owner described her loss. "Thoughts crowd in of guilt, longing and the sincere hope that he felt loved by me during his life. I long to stroke his live body, to feel his warm, soft fur and his cold black nose."

To get help and advice, call the Pet Bereavement Support Service on 0800 096 6606, from 8.30am to 8.30pm.