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Girls often start around the same age as their mothers.
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Menstruation, monthlies, on the blob, on the rag, the curse, time of the month, coming on, getting the painters in, Aunt Flo.
When a girl's body has developed enough to have a baby, her ovaries will release an egg each month. This is called ovulating. At the same time a thick lining forms in her womb in case a baby needs to grow there.
If the egg isn't fertilised by sperm it doesn't start developing into a baby. The thick womb lining isn't needed that month, so it is discarded. It passes out of the vagina as blood and this is what we call a period - it usually lasts from three to eight days.
The unfertilised egg is discarded, too. But this is microscopic. So we can't see it leaving.
These monthly changes - from the start of one period to the start of the next - are called the menstrual cycle. It usually takes about 28 days for a full cycle, but it varies between women.
The average age in the UK is 12 and a half, but it could be any age from 8 to 20. Girls often start around the same age as their mothers.
If a girl's breasts are growing and/or she's noticed discharge in her knickers - chances are her period will start soon.
Most girls' periods are unpredictable at first, so don't expect them like clockwork every 28 days. Still, it's worth making a note of when they happen, so you'll know when they're settling down and be prepared each month.
You'll need sanitary protection to soak up your period, like tampons, or sanitary towels. It's best to try different kinds to find what's best for you, but most girls start using towels. Check out the Feminine Hygiene aisle at the supermarket.
Many girls get mild cramps in the lower part of their stomachs. Others get backache. For a few, it can be a lot worse.
Exercise is the best cure, or resting a hot water bottle where it hurts, taking a hot bath, lying down and breathing deeply, or taking painkillers. If you regularly have really bad pains, your doctor will be able to help. Make an appointment with your GP.
Some girls get pre-menstrual syndrome (PMS) just before their periods, which usually means mood swings and physical symptoms like bloating, sore breasts or spots. This can be reduced by a healthy diet and exercise.
Want to know more about what's going on throughout your cycle? Read our day-by-day guide to your period.
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5 comments posted.
P_Shaii xxx, 16/12/2010 Complain about this commentTo be honest you wouldn't want to get it. I started when I was aged 10, 2 of my best friends were aged 9. My mom was 10 as well. It was really annoying, sitting uncomfortably in lessons, bleeding in P.E and waking up to a pool of blood in your bed. It's annoying. I couldn't even mention the 'P' word, and I hardly do now.
diffusa, 02/10/2010 Complain about this commentNot sure about the 'history lesson' on outmoded terminology that this kicks off with! My Mum says it wasn't even called 'the curse' in her day and references to 'rags' are, well, so last century! Suggest you update this section to reflect current usage.
vhari12, 11/08/2010 Complain about this commentThis site is great ive been wanting my period for a while now,it really helps
HonniiBee, 27/07/2010 Complain about this commentWow , that is such a weight off of my shoulders. Im 16 and I have been stressing because I have not started! But I know now that people don't sometimes start until they are 20! My mother stated 17/18! So im normal after all! Plus my nungas are growing and stuff , which is a sign right?
Beth, 21/07/2010 Complain about this commentHello and welcome to the new Advice site! We've brought comments back as we know how much you liked them - to leave one all you need to do is create a BBC Account. Here's one from the old site: Amzz, 13 This site has really helped (: my periods have been really irregular. I really really wanted my period and I'm glad I've started but not when I'm on. It's a bit of a mess and I always feel like I need a shower when I have it (: thank youuu x x Hope you like the new site! The BBC Advice Team
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