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It's not a cult, it's a collective. It all started
when Danny Wallace put an advert in the local paper asking people
to join him.
Since that day Join Me has gained a following of
thousands, with members all following the Good Friday Agreement
to make the world a better place to live with random acts of kindness.
We caught up with several Nottinghamshire members of the collective
to find out why they joined and what they've been up to.
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The Karma
Army - Nottinghamshire
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Damian
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Michelle
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Briony
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Ian
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Why did you join Join Me?
I guess it was having an excuse to do nice and slightly wacky things
on a weekly basis that made me join! Joinee Briony
I’d always believed that you should help people out whenever you
can – with no hope of compensation or redress etc and this seemed
a lovely, fun and kooky way of doing that. Joinee Michelle
I joined after I read the Join Me book which I was given for my
birthday. After I had finished the book I decided that it was something
that I wanted to be a part of (everyone can use a bit of good karma).
Joinee Ashley
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What random acts of kindness
have you performed?
My favourite one is writing random nice comments in greetings
cards ('Have a great weekend' etc.) and then handing them out to
the first people I see. It's great to see the look on their faces!
Giving out chocolate normally goes down well too, but the most random
one was at the recent Nottingham Meet, during which we unleashed
the fantastic 'Karma Navy' in the form of fab rubber ducks bearing
the 'Join Me' name into the fountains of Market Square to brighten
up the city of Nottingham and also for people to take home! It certainly
made everyone smile and when we returned they had all been taken...
hopefully to loving homes! Joinee Briony
Well, I am a bit of a wimp when it comes to this.
I tend to do non-confrontational ones which I hope just cheer people
up. I’ve given the lady in my local take-away a big bunch of flowers
because she looked a bit glum one day. But that meant that she now
gives me free pancake rolls which I think is missing the point as
I feel a bit guilty about that. But then I could give them to a
homeless person I suppose. And I’ve often helped people out with
the odd 50p for their bus fare or change in the newsagent that people
are very appreciative of and accept gracefully – hopefully they
will do the same for someone else. I like doing things just to see
people smile – it’s a wonderful thing being able to cheer people
up and lets face it, on a Friday you’re normally worn down by the
working week and fed up with it all so if someone can make you a
little happier it’s a good thing all round! (Jeez, I sound like
a happy clappy here…). I’m also making a load of Xmas cakes at the
moment so I’ll probably give those away later or leave them for
people to find. Joinee Michelle
Some of my personal favourites so far have been - paying for the
bus fares of an old couple who were at the bus stop with me - buying
one of those teddies with a name on the front and then trying to
find someone with that name to give it to (I met a hell of a lot
of people that day!) - and buying a helium balloon for a crying
child thus cheering up the child and the parent. Joinee Ian
So far my random acts of kindness have been slightly limited.
Normally every Friday I put my spare change into a vending machine
so that the next person gets something for free. I've also ironed
someone's jeans, mowed a lawn and helped a woman find her lost son
(although it didn't take long I still think it counts). I know some
joinees who send a £5 note to a random address every other week
but I don't have enough money for that. Joinee Ashley
To start with my randon acts of kindness were quite small things
such as letting people pull out of junctions whilst waiting in traffic,
or making cups of tea for people at work. However, I have started
to get a bit more adventurous as I have gone on - lottery tickets
to Big Issue sellers and newspapers before they have been sold.
I am planning on sorting out some Christmas presents for the QMC's
children ward soon. Joinee Robert
I have not been a member that long, but have tried to do as
much good as is possible. I bought gifts for a couple of my friends
to start with, but my first proper random act though was buying
flowers for an old lady. I bought a small bouquet, found the first
old lady on the street I saw, outside the council house actually,
explained I wanted to make someone happy and offered the flowers.
She was so happy and appreciative it made everything worth while.
Joinee John
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What
sort of reaction do you get to these random acts?
Most people tend to be a little suspicious at first, for some reason
today's society is wary and unwilling to accept that someone they
don't know might be willing to do something nice for them with nothing
in it for themselves. It's exactly this kind of attitude that the
Karma Army is trying to suppress and teach people that kindness
does still exist. Obviously we can't explain to people why we're
doing what we do because that would mean we have a hidden motive
and negate the selflessness of the deed, usually just insisting
that you're doing it because it's Friday does the trick. Joinee
Ian
It really does vary from one extreme to the other. Most, after looking
initially confused and sometimes a little scared, manage a big smile
and a thankyou and you get the feeling they really appreciated it.
However, others are convinced you're trying to sell them something
and actually run away! It's sad that it has come to the point that
people think that random kindness isn't possible these days without
some kind of catch. Joinee Briony
The reaction you get is generally very good although some people
are a little wary of your help for example handing out sweets to
children in the park is generally frowned upon. Also, approaching
old men and offering them a cup of tea is very daunting and I have
not yet had the courage to do so. My friends thought I was a little
weird when I told them I had joined a collective but after some
of them received a free drink after meeting a totally random joinee
in a bar I think they have gotten the idea. Joinee Ashley
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Would you recommend
your cult to everyone?
Yes. Let’s face it, if we get everyone
doing one tiny act of kindness a week the world will be a better
place! Joinee Michelle
Absolutely - how could anyone not recommend random kindness?!
Joinee Briony
I recommend Join Me to all my friends perhaps too often. I have
lent the book non-stop since I finished and have so far convinced
three friends to join and I'm sure more will follow. Joinee Ashley
Of course! Anyone who says they don't want to join is basically
saying they don't like being nice to other and that's just silly
and means they never got the point of A Christmas Carol! If people
are thinking they don't want to spend money every Friday on strangers
that shouldn't stop them, some of the kindest things you can do
involve no money at all. Every Friday on my way to university I
see an old man raking the leaves off the cycle path so a couple
of weeks ago I stopped and gave him a hand. Simple, effective and
free! Joinee Ian
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The Karma Army have already met once in Nottinghamshire.
It was on 18th October 2003. Joinee Damian tells us that they went
around handing out chocolate and some 400 leaflets in Old Market
Square.
We found when we arrived that the army was recruiting
that day and decided it was an opportunity we couldn't waste. We
hastily made signs saying "Join The Karma Army Instead" and held
them up. The Army didn't seem to see the funny side. We also placed
lots of rubber ducks in the fountains, which were gone with 30mins
and taken home by some teenagers, so that made them very happy too.
Joinee Damian
Their next meet in Nottinghamshire is being planned for the Spring.
For further details on how to join or just to find out more go to
www.join-me.co.uk.
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