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Pressure grows for equal partnership rights
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A gay student couple have married to highlight the growing campaign for equal partnership rights.

Jon Cox and Hadleigh Bayley exchanged vows in front of around 1000 people during an open-air ceremony at the University of East Anglia, Norwich, on Thursday March 7.

Their wedding featured all the usual traditions with confetti and a reception - but the marriage is not recognised by law.

Jon and Hadleigh, who two years ago at the university, hope their wedding will help raise the profile of the fight for better rights for same-sex couples.

"The marriage wasn't legally recognised and it couldn't be even if it was in a church," said Jon Cox.

"It's basically to raise awareness about partnership rights and the fact that gay couples - even if they've been together 40 years and are truly in love - they're lacking basic rights,"he added.

After the emotional ceremony, which took place in the Central Square, most of the 1000 spectators signed a petition for equal partnership rights. It was organised by the university's Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual Group.

At present same-sex couples are unable to benefit from rules which apply to those in heterosexual relationships.

To name but a few, current inheritance law means that should your partner die after a 20-year loving and sharing relationship, the survivor cannot inherit property.

There are fiscal disadvantages too, from married couples' tax relief, to mortgages and insurance.

Finally, and perhaps most heart-rendingly, partners are still not allowed at hospital bedsides at the passing away of their partner of 20 years, simply because they are not recognised as family.

Jon says although some of the laws and attitudes affecting same-sex couples have changed for the better, Britain still has a way to go to match up to those abroad.

"Britain rates rather badly because a lot of European countries are more forward thinking in their legislation," he said.

"Even though some of the Mediterranean countries are more socially macho and less tolerant in society, the law has taken positive steps to make it more equal", he added.

For more information contact Hadleigh (h.bayley@uea.ac.uk)

 

 



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