Abandoned babies given away on Pakistani TV programme

 

Orla Guerin reports on the controversial TV show which has awarded babies to two childless couples

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Two baby girls who were abandoned in Pakistan's southern city of Karachi have been allocated new parents during a live television broadcast, the BBC's Orla Guerin reports.

At just over a month old Fatima has already lived through a lot.

Her life began, and could have ended, on a rubbish dump in the sprawling megacity of Karachi. Instead, Fatima was rescued by a charity and placed in the loving care of a childless couple.

It looks like a happy ending but it came about in the full glare of television cameras. The sleeping infant was one of two abandoned girls handed over during live broadcasts of "Amaan Ramzan", a blend of Islam and entertainment, which runs during the Muslim holy month of Ramadan.

Ratings concern

The dapper host Dr Aamir Liaquat Hussain is already famous for giving away cars, motorbikes and household electronics.

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Riaz

It felt like... an angel came. She means more to me than my own soul”

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Now the controversial showman has added babies to the list, calling it "a noble cause". He insists he is saving abandoned infants, not using them to boost his ratings.

"We were already top of the ratings before we gave away a baby," said Dr Aamir, who describes himself as "truly a legend" on his website.

"These children are not a part of garbage, are not a part of trash, so we took these children from the garbage, from the trash, and delivered them to the needy people, the needy parents."

His show is broadcast from a packed studio, where the audience sits beneath glittering lanterns and a huge chandelier, and fish swim under glass panels in the floor. This is where the sleeping baby Fatima was handed over to her adoptive parents, who embraced her and wept.

Her new father Riaz, a bearded civil engineer, told us Fatima was the answer to his mother's prayers. She died the day before the broadcast.

He and his wife Tanzeem waited 14 long years for a child. He refused to divorce her, as many advised, when she could not produce a child.

"When the baby came into my arms on the show," he said, "it felt like another soul had entered my body, like an angel came. She has brought us so much peace. She means more to me than my own soul."

As he spoke, his wife tenderly cradled Fatima in her lap. "I adopted her," said Tanzeem, who wore a black chador, a full-body robe. "But it doesn't feel like an adoption. It feels as if she is my own child, as if I gave birth to her. She is a gift from God."

The civil engineer Riaz and his wife Tanzeem hold their newly-adopted child on the TV show. The civil engineer Riaz and his wife Tanzeem hold their newly-adopted child
Two women clad in chadors holding babies Tanzeem Ud Din and another woman, Soraya Bilquis, savour motherhood
Dr Aamir Liaquat Hussain Pakistani TV show host Dr Aamir Liaquat Hussain gives away cars and electrical goods on his TV shows
Baby's face close up of Fatima, adopted daughter Fatima was left to die on a rubbish dump in Karachi
TV show set in Pakistan where a baby girl was given adoptive parents Fatima was handed over to her adoptive parents on the set of a TV show

Seated alongside her was another chador-clad woman now savouring motherhood - Soraya Bilquis. She and her husband waited even longer - 17 years - before getting a child of their own.

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Child welfare worker for Sindh government

It's an insult to the baby and the parents. It should have been done quietly”

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"My life is complete now because of her," she said, gazing down at baby Sayeda Zeinab. "I can't describe how happy I am because someone will grow up and call me mother. She is the light of my home."

Both couples said they saw nothing wrong with being given their daughters on live TV. Tanzeem said she hoped it would encourage others to adopt.

But child welfare advocates fear that other TV shows will copy the baby giveaway. They also worry that the lack of confidentiality could expose the children and their families to teasing and stigma in the future.

"The baby was given away the same way as a gift," said Seema Jamali, assistant director of child welfare for the Sindh provincial government.

"Though it was good to find parents for her, the baby was given like a car, laptop, or motorcycle. It's an insult to the baby and the parents. It should have been done quietly."

It was far from quiet, but it was quick. Both couples were vetted by a private charity, the Chhipa Welfare Association, in less than two weeks. That's a typical time frame here. Checks were carried out on their incomes, medical records, and homes, and there were investigations with the police, and in their communities.

'More transparent'

But the babies were handed over in a legal vacuum, with no regulation by the state. Experts say that's how most children are given new homes here. Adoption does not exist under Islamic law, but couples can apply to the courts to become legal guardians of unwanted babies. Few do.

It's time for a proper legal framework, according to Sharjeel Memon, information minister for Sindh. "We want to make this process more transparent," he told us, "and there must be some legislation that people should go through."

But here in Pakistan there has been no public outcry about the fact that babies were given away on a TV show. Many are glad that they have a new start in life.

Their stories could have ended very differently. More than 300 dead babies are found every year in Karachi alone by Pakistan's largest welfare organisation, the Edhi Foundation. In a 10-day period in July they found 23 tiny bodies. Some had been suffocated.

At their spotless and welcoming home, Fatima's parents keep watch over their precious gift. They take turns to kiss her forehead and arrange her blanket.

"I have hardly had more than two hours' sleep a night since she came," said Riaz, smiling broadly. "We hope she will grow up to be a religious scholar, or maybe an engineer like me." As he spoke Fatima yawned, stirred, and clenched a little fist.

 

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    Comment number 122.

    The host is highly controversial in Pakistan. He totally act like a Bollywood famous star to promote religious teaching. But idea of copying a Bollywood star to promote religious teaching was such a horrible thing that in the beginning he lose his credibility as a Muslim S choler and now most of the local youth watch his show just to make fun of him. Social Media is full of his fun making stuff

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    Comment number 121.

    If one or two adoptions are done in the full glare of publicity like this, it could encourage other couples to adopt - after all, anything is better than infanticide - but the danger is, where does the programme go from here? They've moved on from motorbikes to babies, what's next?

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    Comment number 120.

    Are people reallt that ill? TV show handing over babies?

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    Comment number 119.

    Brilliant piece of reporting by Orla Guerin. If innocence or vulnerability were to be personified it is written on the face of this baby. Seems to me that the babies are going to homes where they are loved and wanted. The host of this TV show, however, is a controversial figure with a huge ego...but that is another story.

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    Comment number 118.

    Being adopted myself I am happy these little girls found great homes, but let's not forget adopted people in the US and Canada are still waiting on their records being opened except Alberta and Maine, and if this becomes a fad girls could be adopted to be servants. I hope, like me, they are taken from bad situations into happy homes.

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    Comment number 117.

    I'm from the States but down in TX a little boy just died of child abuse as horrific as Daniel Pelka. Why is there not a comment section about Daniel? Also, this child was also killed by a stepparent. In TX, they will get the death penalty and for Daniel I wish the UK still had the death penalty. I am against the death penalty except in the case of child murders when DNA evidence is used. RIP.

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    Comment number 116.

    Being from the States, I just read up on the horrific death of Daniel today. Down in TX, there was another child murdered in a very similiar way, tortured, starved, and unable to have water who died in less than a week. Daniel and that Texas boy both were killed by a stepparent. It appears to me we in both societies need much stricter laws over stepparents being allowed around children. To cont...

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    Comment number 115.

    to me,it ok.the most important thing is that the baby is in safe hands.every other tin is not necessary.

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    This comment was removed because the moderators found it broke the house rules. Explain.

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    Comment number 113.

    112. you are ill and it is noble.

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    Comment number 112.

    its a nobel cause to adopt babies, but doing that for ratings is what he is criticized for. However, ppl still watch him despite all his dramas because at the end public wants entertainment !
    no other channel provides the glamour, fun, multi-segment and such well organised show as GeoTv and AmirLiaqat do

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    Comment number 111.

    QUITE DISGUSTING.

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    Comment number 110.

    Has the BBC printed this so I can judge Pakistanis? I don't care what they do in their own country. That's their business. I'm only interested in what they do when they come here.

    Stories about gangs after gangs of them preying on young white girls and forcing them into prostitution or sex slavery is surely far more poignant than a stupid game show.

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    Comment number 109.

    It's what the production companies stoop to for ratings that gets me. Would the TV company do the same thing for nil publicity..NO!
    Some of our TV shows do far worse than this by manipulating those who do not know any better for the sake of reality entertainment value.

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    Comment number 108.

    Coming from Pakistan, I am not surprise!

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    Comment number 107.

    In the US babies are found in the trash even though some states have enacted laws to allow the mother to leave the infant at a fire or police station or at the hospital no questions asked. One teen had the baby in the rest room at her prom & went back to dancing. Problem for these mothers is they are afraid to tell their parents and may be afraid that they will be forced to keep it.

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    Comment number 106.

    Both couples did not divorce because they could not have the children they wanted, and it is a testament to their love and their faith that God granted them these children.

    The TV show is a way to show Pakistani's that their are people who would look on that child as something precious.

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    Comment number 105.

    @73 for cultural reasons, but in Muslim societies, it's suppose to be:

    - the groom that pays the bride a gift, rather than bride that pays a dowry

    - that the brides keep their own surname for lineage, respect etc.

    - a bride can stipulate having her own apartment (with groom)

    - it would be pious to marry a women whose been widowed

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    Comment number 104.

    Ah yes - Television Media Money Power Greed and morality.

    Is it the context of the programme content?

    As an examole of context
    http://www.telegraph.co.uk/culture/tvandradio/bbc/10211783/BBC-approves-shagging-before-the-watershed.html
    But of course I would not be able to SAY THAT on a HYS because the wording is unfit. SO WHY ALLOW IT BEFORE 9 PM?

    Media transmitts anything it can get away with.

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    Comment number 103.

    I canĀ“t help wondering how they kept those little girls sleeping throughout the show. Any mother will know how babies that young cringe when they are surrounded by all that noise and light.

 

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