How to strengthen your willpower

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Willpower is sorely tested at Easter, when temptation comes in abundance and is often coated in chocolate. But a new book suggests that people who exercise greater self-control are those who have greater success in life.

Roy Baumeister seems to cut a good example of self-regulation.

The psychologist is sharply dressed, immaculately groomed and his calm, well-punctuated speech betrays a quiet confidence.

"You might think that people with really strong self-control struggle through this grim existence, forcing themselves constantly to do the right thing," he says.

"But that's not correct. What it seems is that people with good self-control stay out of trouble and minimise problems."

In his book Willpower: Rediscovering our Greatest Strength, co-written by journalist John Tierney, he claims that willpower - the ability to control impulses and thoughts, and persevere with tasks - is a limited resource which is depleted every time we successfully resist temptation.

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Like a muscle it gets tired but like a muscle it can be exercised to make it stronger.

His work builds on the famous marshmallow tests conducted at Stanford University 40 years ago, involving 300 four and five-year-olds.

They could have one marshmallow immediately or two marshmallows in 15 minutes' time. They were left alone with the treat and observed.

A small number of the children took the treat immediately, most held back for about three minutes but about one-third of the children managed to wait the full 15 minutes. Those who waited longer for the marshmallow seemed to do better in school, scored higher in exams and were more likely to go on to university. They also tended to be healthier and more popular.

Baumeister subscribes heavily to this theory and goes further to try to define what exactly willpower is.

He believes willpower is a physiological resource. Like energy, it is a limited reserve that is depleted as the day goes on. But it can be exercised to make it stronger, much like a muscle.

He coined the phrase "ego depletion" to describe his theory and ran a series of experiments to prove it.

The marshmallow test 40 years on

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  • A team at Stanford University has rounded up 26 of the highest and lowest scoring children from the original marshmallow test
  • They have monitored their brain function using an fMRI (functional magnetic resonance imaging) scanner
  • The subjects were asked to press a button when they saw a face but to suppress the impulse to press it when they saw a smiling face
  • The high delayers showed increased activity in the prefrontal cortex, the low delayers in the ventral striatum (an area also linked to addiction)

The tests suggested that after a task that required the resistance of temptation, such as saying no to chocolate, people were less likely to perform a different task that required willpower, such as solving a puzzle.

But just like any other muscle, he says, willpower can be improved through training.

"We have taken adults who are already socialised and with a couple of weeks of exercises, we have improved their willpower and self-control."

He asked people who were right-handed to use their left hand for everyday exercises like brushing their teeth, controlling a computer mouse, eating or opening a door.

He tested their level of ego depletion by asking them to solve a series of anagrams. Before and after the two-week exercise, those who did the exercises seemed to show a marked improvement in anagram-solving.

"Habitual behaviour runs on automatic pilot," says Baumeister. "To increase willpower, you need to override the automatic pilot and take charge with deliberate control."

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  • Roy Baumeister spoke to The Forum on the BBC World Service.

Getting people to sit up straight for two weeks, to speak only in full sentences or to avoid swearing seemed to have a similar effect. Baumeister also found in other tests that willpower can be boosted by glucose. He called this "glucose resource theory".

This has gained legitimacy among psychologists - glucose resource theory has been cited over 1,000 times in scientific papers. But it has also attracted some notable criticism.

"It's almost like there is a self-fulfilling process here," says Greg Walton, part of a team at Stanford University which has found evidence to debunk Baumeister's theory.

"The more that people believe that willpower is a limited physiological resource, the easier it is to find ostensible evidence that that is the case."

If Baumeister's resource theory is flawed, then what exactly is willpower? Michael Inzlicht, a psychologist at the University of Toronto argues for a more nuanced understanding of the processes behind self-control.

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  • Willpower - or self-control - is the root of civilisation; it is what sets humans apart from animals who tend to act on impulse
  • It helps us to make better choices when faced with difficult decisions - by strengthening our ability to reason
  • Willpower is a limited physiological resource powered by glucose
  • You can boost your willpower reserves temporarily by ingesting glucose
  • In the long term, you can strengthen your willpower by doing exercises that override habit.
  • If you are right-handed, use your left hand for everyday tasks, speak in full sentences or sit up straight

"It's clear that consuming glucose can improve self-control," he says. "But we also know that being in a happy mood improves willpower. Being given a choice improves willpower and paying attention can improve willpower."

"Glucose does seem to improve things, but this does not mean that glucose is the resource that underlies self-control."

He believes glucose may have a psychological rather than a physical effect. But he doesn't entirely disagree with Baumeister's muscle metaphor.

"I think willpower can be improved and exercising it seems like a promising way to do this," he says.

Though he fully supports the theory of exercising to increase willpower, Michael Inzlicht believes Baumeister's assertions could be premature.

"This is promising, but more work is needed."

Roy Baumeister appeared on The Forum from the BBC World Service. Listen to the programme here.

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