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My
name is Zahra Bakir. I was born in Edinburgh and I'm now studying
at Leeds University. I hope to become a professional interpreter/translator
one day.
Living here (in England) it is difficult to familiarise yourself
with anything Arabic - Arabic music, dance, Arabic food.
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| Zahra
often goes to Arabic cafes in Leeds |
I do
eat Arabic food at home though and there are restaurants and cafes
where you can taste Arabic food. I like them because it's a little
reminder of what my background is and my parent's background is.
My
favourite Arabic performer is Fairuz. My favorite song is 'Habbaitak
Bissayf' which means, 'I loved you in the Summer' and then it goes
on to 'I loved you in the Winter'.
Arabs love the night
In the Middle East people are just as active at night as they are
in the day.
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| Lebanese
food includes tea and baklava |
Arabs
love the night, they are known for that throughout history. They
have even written poetry about the night.
You
feel safe in Arab countries at night. You go out and places are
generally open. In England, except for London, things close around
six o'clock. Everyone goes home.
I would go crazy
Where
to live in the future is a dilema. I would love to go to back to
Iraq - or rather go to Iraq and rebuild the country. This is another
reason why I learnt interpreting. But England is my home, I have
lived here all my life.
Lots
of my friends from the Middle East tell me I would never survive
in there because I would just go crazy!
Arab
men get the wrong idea
In certain countries, Saudi Arabia for example, they (men) will
not take a woman seriously. They are beginning to more and more
but when I go out there I'm quite open and friendly. I can't be
like that with some Arab men because they get the wrong idea.
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| In
Leeds, Zahra lives independently but visits her family in London
during holidays. |
They
think I'm 'interested' in them. It's really insulting but if you
just catch somebody's eye, by mistake, or if you smile or say a
nice word that's it, you are in big trouble because they think you
like them. They are unrelentless in trying to catch you or whatever
they want.
Living alone
If I went to an Arabic country and lived there I would have to be
married or with brothers or with my family who could support me
and make sure that nothing happened to me.
But alone... I could live alone in England but I could never live
alone in an Arabic country.
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