Session 3

Listen to find out how to use an everyday English expression.
መዓልታዊ እንጥቀመሎም ናይ እንግሊዝኛ መግለጺ ሓሳባት ብኸመይ ከም እትጥቀሙሎም ንምርዳእ ተኸታተሉ።

ክፍለ-ስራሓት ናይዚ ምዕራፍ

ድምር ነጥቢ ናይዚ ክፍለ-ስራሓት 3

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    Activity 1

Activity 1

Treading on eggshells

Look at the Session Vocabulary – make sure you know what these words mean:

  • groceries
  • shopkeeper
  • sensitive
  • offend
  • awkward

Listen to two friends Rob and Li talking about a visit to the shops. As you listen, think about these questions:

  • What had happened to the shopkeeper?
  • Why didn’t Li want to ask him about it?

Listen to find out the answers. Then check them on the transcript below.

ነቲ ቅዳሕ ጽሑፍ ኣርእይዎ ነቲ ቅዳሕ ጽሑፍ ሕብእዎ

ኣቕራቢቋንቋትግርኛ
ሰላም፣ አዚ ናይ ቋንቋ እንግሊዝኛ ኣገባብ ኣዘራርባ ንክትመሃሩ ዝሕግዝኩም መደብ English Expressions እዩ። እንቋዕ ብደሓን መጻእኩም።
ሊ ኣስቤዛ ንኽትሽምት ናብ እንዳ ድኳን ከይዳ። ኣብቲ እንዳ ድኳን ምስ በጽሐት ግን ቀሊል ከምዘይነበረ ትዛረብ፡ ‘tricky’ ኰይኑ ረኺባቶ። ‘Tricky’ እንታይ ማለት ምዃኑ‘ስከ ንፈትሽ።

Rob               
Hi Li. Hey, it looks like you've been really busy.

Li       
I've just picked up some groceries from the local shop, you know - milk, eggs, bread, flour – I'm going to make a cake.

Rob
Make a cake? Oh good. So how was Mr Brown, the shopkeeper? Hasn't he just split up with his wife?

Li
He has. It was tricky in the shop. I didn't want to say anything to him just in case I mentioned his wife. I only said: "Good morning" and he said: "Is it?"

ኣቕራቢቋንቋትግርኛ
ሚስተር ብራውን፡ እቲ ብዓል-ድኳን፡ ምስ ብዓልቲ-ቤቱ ስለ ዝተፈላላየ ‘split up’ ዝለዝገበረ፡ ሊ ስም ብዓልቲ-ቤቱ ክትጠቅስ ኣይደለየትን። ሊ ‘ድሓንዶ ሓዲርኩም?’ ምስ በለት ብዓል ድኳን ትቕብል ኣቢሎም ‘is it?’ “ከምኡ ድዩ?”  ኢሉ መሊሱላ። ኣቶ ብራውን ብድሓን ዘርፈዱ’ዶ ይመስለኩም? ኣብዚ ተኣፋፊ ኵነታት ‘sensitive situation’ ሊ ኣዝያ ክትጥንቀቕ ዝተገደደት’ያ ትመስል። ምስማዕ ንቐጽል።

Rob
Hmm, it sounds like you've been treading on eggshells.

Li
Oh no, the shop was very clean, nothing on the floor – I don't really think he's the sort of person to throw food around!

Rob
No Li – I mean you were trying very hard not to upset him – that's what treading on eggshells means.

Li
Oh! So it's about being nice - it's about being sensitive to the situation?

Rob
Yes.

Li
Well, I was very sensitive. But what have eggshells got to do with it?

Rob
Well, if there were eggshells on the floor literally you would have to be very careful where you put your feet!  

ኣቕራቢቋንቋትግርኛ
ሮብ ከምዝብሎ ሊ ኣብ ልዕሊ ቅራፍ እንቋቍሖ ትረግጽ ነይራ ‘treading on eggshells’፡ ምኽንያቱ ንኣቶ ብራውን ከይተሕርቕ ትጥንቀቕ ስለዝነበረት። ስለዚ ብናይ እንግሊዝኛ ኣዘራርባ “ኣብ ልዕሊ ቅራፍ እንቋቍሖ ምርጋጽ” ማለት ንኻልኦት ንኸይተሕርቕ እትገብሮ ጥንቃቐ ማለት’ዩ። መሓዙትኩም ካብቶም ዘፍቅርዎም ምስ ዝፈላለዩ፡ ነቲ ምፍልላይ ዘዛኻኽር ዘረባ ከተልዕሉሎም ኣይትደልዩን ኢኹም፡ ኣይኰነን’ድዩ?  
ሓደሓደ ኣብነታት’ስከ ንስማዕ።

Examples:
I had to be so careful with what I said to my ex-girlfriend. The smallest thing made her angry: it was like treading on eggshells.

Ever since my argument with my neighbour about parking, I feel like I've been treading on eggshells.

Since my friend's father died, I don't know what to say to him: it's like treading on eggshells.

Li
So, treading on eggshells can be awkward because you don't know what to say and you don't want to offend someone. So Rob, what should I have said to Mr Brown?

Rob
Ok, well, you could have said 'plenty more fish in the sea!'

Li
What?!

Rob
Or erm...'I didn't like her much anyeway'.

Li
Rob, I think that's the opposite of treading on eggshells.

Rob
Really? Anyway let me help you with your shopping…here you go… oops!

(Rob drops the eggs!)

Li
Rob! You have dropped all the eggs on my kitchen floor.

Rob
Oh no! Now you really will be walking on eggshells!

Li
That's not funny.

Rob
I didn't like your cakes much anyway.

ኣቕራቢቋንቋትግርኛ
ወይ ጕድ! ሮብ፡ ኣብ ክሽነ እንዳ ሊ፡ ነቶም እንቋቍሖታት ኣብ ባይታ ኣውዲቑዎም። ሕጂሞ ብሓቂ “ኣብ ልዕሊ ቅራፍ እንቋቍሖ ክረግጹ” ማለት’ዩ። ግናኸ ኣስተውዕሉ፡ “ኣብ ልዕሊ ቅራፍ እንቋቍሖ ምርጋጽ” ‘treading on eggshells’ ማለት ዘረባኹም ይዅን ግብርኹም ከየቐዪሙ ምጥንቃቕ ማለት’ዩ፣ ምናዳ’ኳ ኣብቲ ብቐሊሉ ሰብ ከተቐዪመሉ ዝከኣል ተኣፋፊ ኵነታት። ሕጂ “ኣብ ልዕሊ ቅራፍ እንቋቍሖ ክትረግጹ ዝተገደድኩምሉ እዋን ተዘኪሩኩም’ዶ? ‘treading on eggshells’።
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Answers

• The shopkeeper’s wife has left him.
• She didn’t want to upset the shopkeeper.

How do I use it?

‘Treading on eggshells’, uses the verb ‘tread’. In this episode the verb is being used in two ways.

Gerund

Verbs can be used like nouns by adding -ing. This is called a gerund.

That’s what treading on eggshells means.

Treading on eggshells can be awkward.


Continuous aspect

Verbs can take the continuous aspect by adding -ing. This is used in tenses such as the present continuous, or the present perfect continuous.

I'm treading on eggshells around my boss at the moment, as I made a big mistake recently.

I feel like I have been treading on eggshells.

The continuous aspect is used for an activity in progress, rather than a completed action.

Treading on eggshells

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ኣብቲ ጠቓሚ ቋንቋ እትመሃርሉን ናይ ምስማዕ ክለትኩም እትለማመድሉን ዝቕጽል መደብ English Expressions የራኽበና።

Session Vocabulary

  • groceries
    ኣሽባሾ

    eggs
    እንቋቝሖ

    eggshells
    ቅራፍ-እንቋቍሖ

    cake
    ምቁር ሕብስቲ

    shopkeeper
    ብዓል-ድኳን

    upset
    ምሕራቕ

    sensitive
    ተኣፋፊ

    awkward
    ጋሕማጥ

    offend
    ምቕያም