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Two women tie the knot
Two women tie the knot

Tying the Civil Partnership knot

By Nicola Hill
Gay men and lesbians in Kent can now tie the knot thanks to the Civil Partnership Act which was introduced in December 2005.


Key benefits

  • equal treatment for tax purposes, including inheritance tax
  • recognition for immigration purposes
  • rights to survivor’s pension
  • next of kin rights
  • exemption from testifying against each other in court
  • court administered dissolution process
  • domestic violence protection
  • automatic revocation of will on registration of partnership
  • on intestacy surviving partner automatically inherits their partners property
  • maintenance on dissolution

The Act allows homosexual couples the same rights as married couples. These include next of kin rights, not having to pay 40 per cent inheritance tax, pension rights and recognition for immigration and tax purposes.

A recent survey of the gay community in the magazine, Gay Times, revealed that 81 per cent of people are planning to take advantage of the new law.

Gay men and lesbians who want to hold a civil partnership ceremony need to go to their local register office to give formal notice of their intention to register their partnership. They can hold the ceremony 15 days after giving this notice.

On the actual day, couples will form their civil partnership by signing a document in the presence of a registration officer and two witnesses. Civil partnership ceremonies can take place in venues licensed to hold civil weddings or registry offices.

Alan and Lee who are getting married in January. They said: "We were treated extremely well by the registrars at the Archbishop's Palace, Maidstone. They were as excited as we were about the new same sex civil partnerships, a real relief for us as you always worry how you are going to be dealt with - worrying are they sincere or just out to get a cut of the pink pound.

"However the registry office have been wonderful, kind and considerate throughout."

Iolanda Hudson, Event Organiser (www.kentbride.co.uk) said: "I think it's important that same sex relationships are given the same respect as any other. Back in the 70s my English Mum married my Italian Dad and they experienced much resistance from the local community.

"Nowadays people don't think twice about inter-cultural marriages and I see this recent law change as a very positive step, finally gay couples can celebrate their relationship in the same way as others have for years."

Some venues and services in Kent have woken up to this new market and started to promote themselves as gay friendly. These include The Lost Village of Dode, Philpots Manor, Lympne Castle and The Queen’s Inn.

Helen Garvey of Philpots Manor said: “We feel from our research, that privacy is very important to gay couples as this is very much new territory for them and the majority of people we interviewed preferred to keep their private life private. 
They also appeared to be quite nervous of the reception they might receive from various venues.”

There has been some controversy about the Act especially from religious quarters. However, Kent clergyman Bishop Jonathan Blake said he is happy to bless couples. He is the Bishop of Greater London for the Open Episcopal Church.

He said: “Our church has the same regard for and places the same value on the love between a gay couple as between a heterosexual couple.”

Some other more traditional elements of heterosexual weddings are also embracing gay weddings. A local toastmaster, Ian Low, said: “Some of my fellow toastmasters are a bit sniffy about it but at the end of the day it is about two people who love each other, getting hitched.”

Nicola Hill is co-founder of gay-friendly-wedding-venues.com

last updated: 22/03/06
Have Your Say
What do you think? Are Civil Partnerships a good idea? Will you be taking advantage of the new Act?
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raana eraj
Is there any reference to God during a Civil Partnership ceremony?
Tue May 20 01:10:19 2008

Carly aged 18
I believe that this act is beneficial to gays and lesbians and is right to allow them to marry with freedom that they deserve, they have as much rights as any of us to marry.
Fri Jan 25 11:44:32 2008

Rachel aged 15
I am writing a report on civil partnership and am enjoying it thoroughly as pages like this have taught me a lot. I thoroughly agree with gay weddings and don't see why anyone wouldn't, it's just two people who love each other. They should have the right to celebrate that love just as much as heterosexual couples.
Mon Nov 5 18:01:40 2007

debbie
What's Khan doing on this site anyway? Curious? Hiding in the closet maybe?Does he really think we're interested in his biggoted small minded opinions...
Sun Nov 4 17:31:54 2007

Richard
I am on holiday in Australia and most gay people here would love the same rights that we are so lucky to have in the UK. It is good to finally see recognition for for all gay couples everywhere in the UK and that for once we are at the forefront of equal rights for all. It makes me even more proud to be British, the United Kingdom is a great place to live and some times we forget just how far we have come in terms of equality for all.
Thu Feb 16 06:33:00 2006

Kayleigh
I am so glad that finally we have the opportunity to share some of the same rights as straight couples. And to hidayat khan: the only sickness we suffer is love for each other; and the only treatment required is equal treatment by the world.
Mon Feb 13 11:19:28 2006

Dave D
What a good idea...Its about time that we moved into the real world..my stepson & his partner will be taking advantage of this change soon. Why should gays be denied what i have had with two heterosexual marriages for 35 years....more power to them
Fri Jan 27 14:08:40 2006

gill
I think it's great and a positive change in the right direction, hopefully within a few years full marriage rights will come and about time.
Sat Jan 21 23:13:19 2006

Karen c
It is unfortunate hidayat khan feels that way but at the end of the day love is love and if you are lucky enough to find it then you should be allowed to celebrate in any way you want to. Everybody is equal so we should all get the same rights.
Fri Jan 13 15:50:54 2006

n sall
i am a british born sikh who has been living with my bofriend for the last 8 years with my parents blessing, ans we are getting marrired on May 20th 2006, we have waited a long time for this and it is the best thing that has happened for gay people in a long time.
Sun Jan 8 00:45:11 2006

n sall
no wonder it has taken so long to get gay partnerships recoginised with people like hidayat khan living in our world
Sun Jan 8 00:42:58 2006

D SAMPSON
I THINK CIVIL PARTNERSHIPS ARE A GOOD IDEA BUT IT SHOULD BE EXTENDED TO HETEROSEXUAL COUPLES WHO DON'T ACTUALLY WANT TO MARRY
Tue Jan 3 14:40:48 2006

Charles Jones
Same sex rights are long overdue. Unfortunately, ignorant and selfrighteous opinions such as Hidayat Kahns are all to prevalent in todays society.
Thu Dec 22 13:44:09 2005

hidayat khan
they r sick people and they need treatment. in a way they r destroying this society. it is against the nature and any ting going against the nature gets destroyed. the future generation would suffer.
Thu Dec 22 06:00:40 2005

Eddy Brazil
The love is a gift from God,donīt matter who is it. So if itīs from God... advantage? of course!
Thu Dec 22 00:04:55 2005

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