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The Bullring shopping complex

The busy Bullring in Birmingham

Little and large

Being brought up on the Isle of Man is often quite a sheltered experience for Manx youth, so using his own experiences and those of fellow students, Adam Uren discusses some of the noticeable differences between island life and big city living.

At the end of my three-year tenure at the University of Birmingham, I have become introspective about the city I have begun to refer to as 'home'. Such a thought would have been impossible to contemplate before I left the Isle of Man for university.

Yet when I leave Birmingham, it will be an emotional exit. 

That isn't to say my transition from placid Manx life to the hustle and bustle of England’s second city has been easy. The differences between the two are stark and sometimes difficult to get used to.

The sheer number of shoppers in the Bullring (Birmingham’s main shopping centre) means you walk around with perfect anonymity, whilst in the Isle of Man you can't help but run into people you know on Strand Street. 

When I first experienced the Bullring I was quite intimidated, as it was so unlike the local shopping experiences I was accustomed to.

Finding my way around the city was the other problem I had when adjusting to life in Birmingham. The transport systems in cities are more complex and on a much larger scale than on a small island.

Jaime Quayle, Manx resident

Jaime Quayle

It took me a long time to become familiar with such systems. The only hint I can give to a future student in a similar position is to learn by doing.

I had no idea about the train system in the West Midlands when I first came to Birmingham, but it was just something I had to work out. Despite it being nerve-wracking at first, it becomes an oddly liberating experience. 

Apparently it is not only myself who had trouble with moving to a big city from the Isle of Man.

Cathryn Floate, a 20-year-old University of Manchester student, says she had similar problems as I when trying to find her way around Manchester. She combated this by walking around the city as much as possible.

University of Nottingham student Scott Davidson, 21, found the main thing he had to adjust to was the lack of spectacular countryside in the Midlands which he had grown comfortable with on the Isle of Man.

Whilst some find it difficult to adjust to life in a big city, others go to universities that share similarities with the Isle of Man. 

Jaime Quayle, 21, who has just finished his course at Lancaster University (barely a ferry ride away from Douglas) says because Lancaster is a small place like the Isle of Man, he settled into the surroundings much quicker than he expected and that it has the same 'local' atmosphere found on the island.

Those reluctant to try big city life may be advised to choose a university like Lancaster for a life not too far removed from the one experienced on the Isle of Man. Whilst those of you who crave a big city, take it from me, you will miss it when it's over!

last updated: 04/04/2008 at 15:15
created: 27/07/2006

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Island life or big city - which do you prefer?

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mate
The island rocks but the people are the rudest people i have ever met in my life,and some of them are racist.i'm from london and there is more multi cultures and tolerence of other races but on this island people look at me like i'm from another planet.some of the people here are the best people and they are just nice people

meelqui
isle of man is beutiful

shantell braynen
I really like both the Isle of Man and the City for different reasons of course. The Island island is more peaceful while in the city you have more things to do.

Katie Hemsley
My Island Rocks I wouldnt change Island Life for anything

sarah lowry
i really like life on the island it is so great for my kids and is really good quality of life much better than a busy city

Jason Rider
I am neither a citizen of the U.K. or the Isle of Man, nor am I a student, (anylonger, anyhow!)but, while researching my genealogy, I've discovered that my ancestors were given their name (which is "Rider") not for their expert horsemanship, but because they hailed from a small town or burgh, on the Isle of Man, known as Ride. In my research, even the massive internet has failed to provide me with any information on the town of Ride! It would help me to complete my family genealogy to find such information, and, I would be forever grateful to any generous enterprizing soul that could contact me with such information! (Once I notice a responce on the site, I will readily provide you with my contact information, of course!) Thank you, in advance.

simone
there is nohing wrong with having a bit of both. i love the island very much, but the only thing better than a weekend away shopping in manchester, is being safe in the knowledge that you are going home!

Lorna Parry
I SAY iSLAND LIFE WITH THE BEAUTIFUL MANX COUNTRYSIDE EVEN THOUGH THE ISLAND IS SMALL YOU'LL ALWAYS FIND SOMETHING TO DO

anne hamilton
growing up in leicester was lovely. Leicestershire has such diverse locations , and although it has its big city life going on in the centre, there are vast trackts of open countryside and forest. Coming to the isle of man to live after many holidays was not so much different, just a better quality of life and cleaner air to breathe.

Peter
3 years studying @ Coventry, a short ride from B'Ham. Two very different places. Cov. city centre quite small & run down, not had ithe same investment. I still felt safe walking home in the evenings so long as pub closing time avoided (as any city really). 4 years in Preston Lancashire - Univerity has invested heavily in modernising facilities & is now town's biggest employer. Good range of pubs/shops/restaurants in town centre without being to big. A reat mix of town/country location. 2 years working in London and that's a country in itself. Too impersonal & grimy! My advice for anyone given the opportunity to have a working holiday (as such) off island is to give it a go. You can return any time. As for Island/City, has to be the Island. The Irish sea has been our best friend in keeping the Island a safe place to live, and only falls out with us a few times a year (as recently reminded)!

Stu
Having been back on the island now for 3 months after spending 3 (and a bit) years at Sheffield University, the thing I miss most is the space. In England, you can drive for hours and hours whereas in the Isle Of Man, everywhere is at max a half hour ride away. The cultural diversity is something else I will miss; everyone on the island seems so similar (read boring) whereas at university you come into contact with people from different cultures, which is in itself a very liberating and educating experience.

zoe barrow
I came from the Island to study at Cheltenham. Cheltenham is actually quieter than the Isle of Man. I walk down the street in Cheltenham (only been here 3 years) and I meet people I know all the time. I even met a manx lad once! It's nice to be in England.. a bigger place.. you do feel independent. But its also nice to be on the Island, where everyone is relaxed, you can think, it gets dark at night and you can walk on the beach anytime you like.

Emma
I too live in Lancaster and hate it! I did not chose it because of it merely being alike the Isle of Man I chose it for the course. I love travelling to cities and love the hustle and bustle, although would hate living there. I think it just depends on the person as to what living style you want to partake in whether you live on the island or small town or venture into a city.

charlie
i love the island life, its so near to england, but yet it feels so different. I'd like to travel, but think i'll settle on the Island to bring up a family - and the finance sector is booming, so a good job is another bonus.

Siobhan
it is hard to compare the two. i have been in chester for 4 years now since moving here for university. the isle of man is unique and i miss it but i dont think i could give up the independence of being in a city, even as small as Chester nor the shops and night life! i agree with my brother Jaime and believe that the surroundings of Chester remind me of 'home' and therefore adapted to life here with ease. i can still see me going back to the island one day, i think it is the perfect place to bring up a family. it is so safe and secure.

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