Although in the past condom allergy was thought to be a poor excuse used by men when they didn't want to use a condom, it has become clear recently that the problem is real.

In many cases the problem seems to be an allergy to rubber. Hypoallergenic condoms are now available made from polyurethane instead of latex.

Another possibility is that you're sensitive to the spermicide that lubricates the condom. Try using a condom without nonoxynol-9 or 11 spermicide to see if that helps.

Reducing friction

For many people, a lack of lubrication is the underlying cause of the irritation. The friction caused by dry skin surfaces makes sex uncomfortable and can leave you with the sort of irritation you describe.

The solution is to use extra lubricant during foreplay and intercourse. This should be water-based. Oil-based lubricants react with the condom, breaking down and weakening the latex.

To avoid dryness and the friction it brings, 'jel-charge' the condom. Expel the air from the tip of the condom, put lubricant inside the top and massage it over the penis as you role the condom on.

This not only solves the problem of dryness but also heightens the sensation experienced during intercourse.

This article was last medically reviewed by Dr Trisha Macnair in December 2007