markus petz <councillortothewise@yahoo.de> wrote: "How do we avoid familiarity and comfort zones from turning to suspicion, dislike and hatred of the other is a question I would like to know the answer to. It relates to my question of why do people live in fear?"
This is so interesting when the timing of brain waves enter into synchronicity. Yesterday I came across an invitation from Chris Macrae on the EU Knowledgeboard that deals directly with love and fear. So I singed up by putting my personal life in context with the same as what you are responding to here, Markus. Because of new membership requirements at Knowledgeboard, I am pasting my entry hereafter:
Open Sourcing The Love, Fear Matrix of KM (version 1)
Healing the organic sourcing of love to overcome fear Chris says:
...So it seems important to be able to systemically profile what makes people love work or fear it? We can imagine a 2 by 2 matrix where you post-it an observation however tacit:
A Love the work and feel no fear because the culture supports me
B Have no love of the purpose but am extremely self-confident
C Love the work but the culture erodes my confidence and makes me increasing fearful
D Have no love of the work and the culture of this organisation makes me fear for my job too
I have some ideas but first I thought I would look to see if anyone wanted to join the discussion or collaboration early. Can you post in an observation connected to A, B, C or D. Do you have other questions or comments before I try and develop version 2 of this thread.
I entered:
Chris,
I am responding to C that says:
"Love the work but the culture erodes my confidence and makes me increasing fearful"
To such a definition, I offer the disfunction of my marriage and family life as the crisis out of which comes the greatest potential for love to grow personally and communally for the benefit of all.
To overcome the results of increasing cross-generational fear driven love on the home front from domestic oppression to domestic health, can serve as a potent common denominator of local and global socio-cultural healing.
Such denominator can be cultivated to adapt to any social fabric, once we know how to handle the cycles of dysfunction into the renewal of personal regeneration and community participation.
Andrius Kulikauskas asked:
"To what extent is it essential or not to have a spiritual or traditional basis for a global village? And how to fit that with our urges to remove reference to spirituality or invasion of personal beliefs? And how do we create such traditions?"
In the Chinese Traditional Medicine, it is said that there is no coincidence in the successful meeting between patient and doctor. This is due to the fact that the practice is based upon the ability of both to be and to grow open and truthful to one another, in all matters of life, where the needs of both are leading the communication.
Gloval Villages can be aproached as the Citizenship Traditional Status Development. The concept embraces and contains all of the developed humanities and opens the door to all sciences to merge under the umbrella of The Faculty of Living.
The integrity of sanctity combined with healing the meaning form together one aspect of tradition that can allow for all fields of research to grow within the behavior and attitude that will go on strengthening consensus and education while avoiding the tensions of conflict to rise above sustainability and on the contrary, where tensions become channelled into times of rejuvenating empowerment.
It is important to keep in mind that I do not use consensus in the same way as it is commonly understood which says that consensus is for everyone to agree to same position. Moving in the same direction in the balance of counter forces is how I use it.
So in retrospect of my year with the EU Knowledgeboard, I suggest:
-To extend at the family level, the Citizenship Traditional Status Development based on the mutuality between patient and health practitioner in the Traditional Chinese Medicine
-From Brown to Green:
http://www.openleader.com/index.php/LovingGod/FromBrownToGreenhttp://www.openleader.com/index.php/LovingGod/TheCross-Healing the meaning
-Consensus of the North American Aboriginal tradition.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/h2g2/classic/A10573021-The Quietenning Silence of Patient Wisdom:
http://www.openleader.com/index.php/LovingGod/QuieteningSilenceOfPatientWisdom-Focus on the Sciences of Spiritual Hygiene
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/h2g2/classic/A9794703-...cleansing our vision of the Crown...
http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/h2g2/classic/U1590685...all blessings be with us all...
Benoit couture
Ps: Now, if I can be explained exactly what is needed to go from threading my words here to the contributing reality that they evoke, perhaps that my crisis will then yield all of its opportunity, starting from:
"Love the work
(of raising the Personal Sector within my marriage and family at EU Knowledgeboard and other Open Source mediums)
but the culture erodes my confidence and makes me increasing fearful"
because the mind of money with its market place, keeps its ears shut to the callings of destiny.
Benoit Couture