You can see My old and not quite true page here.

The truth is, I'm a sub (submissive), bottom, brat, slave whichever role fits at the time.

I'm mildly into BDSM

Bondage & Discipline (B&D) Bondage, involves being restrained physically, for example in chains, rope or cuffs. Discipline, the other widely practised component of B&D, traditionally covers all manner of punishments, training, and behavioural reforms, be they physical (ie, by the infliction of pain) or psychological (ie, by the infliction of humiliation or a time-out).

Dominance & submission(D/s) refers to a consensual power exchange. Whereby the sub willingly gives control to the Dom who accepts the control

Sadism and Masochism (S&M) refers to the giving and receiving of pain, respectively, often for erotic purposes.

BDSM, collectively, is a consensual activity practiced amongst adults.

The most important words being SAFE, SANE & CONSENSUAL

I'm in my early 40s, but have only recently come out and admitted my BDSM desires. Firstly to myself, then to my partner. I had it hidden deeply within me since my early teens. In a simular way that homosexuals are aware from their early teens that there is something 'different' about them, as it was with me and BDSM. Though, as I've said, I'm only mildly into it.

While most of you ladies were enjoying chocolates or flowers for Valentine's Day, I got a ball-gag, just what I wanted not that I wouldn't have liked some chocolate too, but not flowers, I don't particually like flowers.

Why did I pretend to be a Dominatrix, when in reality I'm a submissive? Simple; I liked the pictures, (I wanted to create a visually appealing page) but they didn't 'fit in' with the sub image and I thought being a Dominatrix would be more interesting.

Before you hit the 'Yikes' button, please take into account, this is simply information. I'm not in any way suggesting or encouraging anyone else to get involved in BDSM.