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Being dumped is good for you.
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Posted Nov 30, 2007 by Syrphus
Every one has an ego.
Most of us have a sense of how we are - the id.
To be dumped is battering the id - it is going to the core.
Consider this, whenever a new relationship starts one tends to be quite critical but that is overridden by your desire - there are some major faults but you tell yourself "the other" will change.
Now, youve been dumped, and you are terribly upset - hey have you forgotten the faults?
Supposing you stayed the course then what?
Now you are free and whats more so is the other person.
Does this cheapify relationships - only if you want it to.
The answer - respect, first for yourself then the other as a person just like you.
Nature has so much to teach us but few can hear.
By the way i love the article.

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