BBC Home

Explore the BBC

h2g2
1st January 2010
Accessibility help
Text only

.

Conversation Forum


SEARCH h2g2
Edited Entries only
Search h2g2Advanced Search


New visitors: Create your membership
Returning members: Sign in
BBC Homepage
The Guide to Life, The Universe and Everything.

This is the Conversation Forum for Assertiveness and Assertiveness Training
Contact Us


Like this page?
Send it to a friend!

 
Conversation list
<< TA
assertiveness >>

Anecdotes (Hopefully Relevant)
Post: 1
Posted Oct 3, 2004 by Steve K.
An interesting entry, my impression is that it describes "assertiveness" as counter-punching against those employing faux "leadership" (intimidation, manipulation).

A couple of stories come to mind.

The current Enron corporate management debacle includes a story about the CFO invoking the "Skilling Card", i.e. using the name of the CEO as being behind him in any debate, even thought the CEO wasn't present and likely knew nothing about the issue. This also came up in my corporate days, when the executive VP realized that his name was being invoked by lower level managers to win arguments. I.e. "Well, Smith says we ought to do it my way ..." (not his real name). "Smith" grr actually issued a memo ordering that people stop using his name without his involvement.

On being accused of inconsistency, I think it was Walt Whitman who said, "Do I contradict myself? Very well, then, I am large, I contain multitudes." cdouble

Reply 

No Previous PostNo Next Post
Click to Make a Complaint
The Parent Posting, to Which This is a Reply
An Older Reply to the Parent PostingThis PostingA Newer Reply to the Parent Posting
The First Reply to This Posting

Key
Navigation Example
A: An older reply to the parent Posting
B: The parent Posting, to which this is a reply
C: A newer reply to the parent posting
D: The first reply to this Posting
Click to Make a Complaint
 Click on this icon to make a complaint about a specific Posting
Conversation list
<< TA
assertiveness >>






Disclaimer

Most of the content on h2g2 is created by h2g2's Researchers, who are members of the public. The views expressed are theirs and unless specifically stated are not those of the BBC. The BBC is not responsible for the content of any external sites referenced. In the event that you consider anything on this page to be in breach of the site's House Rules, please click here. For any other comments, please click on the Feedback button above.




About the BBC | Help | Terms of Use | Privacy & Cookies Policy