The saddest thing I can imagine is to get used to luxury.
- Charlie Chaplin
The word 'luxury' suggests all sorts of tactile nonsense: foamy soapy, bubbles; soft, furry coats; gloopy, rich, chocolates; brandy; fragrant blue smoke from Cuban cigars; even the leather and walnut interiors of vintage cars, Jaguar XJSs etc. It might just be this sad Researcher's fantasy (or age) but 'luxury' is a word that's got a 70s or 80s feel to it. It makes you think of old magazine adverts, wavy-haired models wafting about in roll-neck sweaters and silk blouses flirting over cocktails (Editor: You can stop fantasising now and get on with the Talking Point.)
Do you have any luxuries in your life? They might not remotely resemble the slightly clichéd vibe above; your luxuries might be something more ephemeral like ways of spending 'time'. Whatever they are, this week we'd like you to think about the little luxuries in your life:
What single luxury could you simply not do without?
Is there a particular luxury you've hankered after for years but haven't quite felt you've deserved yet?
Is there something you'd describe as a luxury in your life that you actully feel guilty about? To the point of maybe not even enjoying it?
Are there luxuries that you're thinking of giving up or have already given up? If so, why did you do it?
In these days of financial worry, are luxuries the first thing to go out the window? Or they at least partially retained to help sweeten the bitterness of hard times?
Do you think there's something a bit pathetic about the concept of 'luxuriating'? Do you feel it's all a bit soft-bellied, slack-waisted and generally mushy over-indulgence?
Or are you less, say, austere in your view and believe that life is for enjoying, indulging, luxuriating?
Is your luxury expensive? In fact, is cost a defining factor in what actually constitutes a luxury in the first place? Or is luxury less to do with actual stuff and more to do with how we spend our time doing stuff?
What is the impulse behind the concept of luxury driven by companies, marketing and ad agencies selling us stuff and a life-style perception to go with it? What does it say about us?