Oral fixation is a condition which causes certain people to always
require stimulation of the mouth. The concept was coined by Sigmund Freud,
probably during one of his cocaine highs. He thought that young infants get
some sort of "orgasmic" pleasure from sucking, chewing, biting, etc.,
because that is what is most important in their lives at that point:
nourishment through the mouth. Children who did not get enough stimulation
were believed to later on develop oral fixation.
People with oral fixation can be identified because they are always
eating, biting their nails, licking their lips, drinking, chewing the tips
of their pencils, or making out. There are other "fixations", such as nasal
fixations, which requires constant stimulation of the nasal area, usually by
sticking coins up there, or drinking milk or rum through the nasal cavities.
It is quite entertaining to be around a drunk person with a nasal
fixation.
Question: What if I think I have an oral fixation?
Answer: If you believe you have an oral fixation, don't panic! Many people
lead productive and fulfilling lives despite their oral plight. In fact,
many people believe Freud himself had both an oral and nasal fixation, which
explains the constant cigar in his mouth and cocaine up his nose.
Question: Can I correct an oral fixation?
Answer: More than likely, no. Some people may grow out of it, such as six
year olds who still suck their thumbs. However, there is no way to actively
reduce oral fixated activity, especially when you are somewhat older than
that. For example, if you are fifty and still suck your thumb, just give in
and enjoy it.
Question: Can I use an oral fixation to my advantage?
Answer: Yes. "Can I have a lollipop? It's to satisfy my oral fixation." "I'm
sorry, it's just that ... I have ... (tears) an oral fixation ... I'm sorry
I didn't tell you sooner ... " and so on.
So, remember, living with an oral fixation is okay. Just thank Freud for
giving it an important medical name which you can use to your advantage.