Thursday 30 December 2010, 09:00
The book had started life as a short story about the food of the 1960s and 1970s for my weekly Observer column, but I soon realised that the food I was writing about was impossible to separate from what was happening in my life at the time.
She immediately recognised the magic of the story, the humour and fairy tale element. I knew at once my story was in safe hands.
It was SJ who first suggested Helena Bonham Carter for the role of my stepmother.
Casting Victoria Hamilton as mum was a little more straightforward. I immediately recognised mum's quiet elegance and gentle nature in her.
The casting continued in this original and spirited manner.
Ken Stott proved to be the perfect reincarnation of my father, and Oscar Kennedy and Freddie Highmore who both play me at different stages of my life, turned out to be an extraordinary piece of déjÃ vu for me, both of them showing the determination and vulnerability I had at that age.
The film touches on the sexual thread of the book, but in a more subtle way. This may disappoint a few readers who are hoping for a visual romp through the book's more colourful and varied sex scenes but it makes it easier viewing.
The days I spent on set were enjoyable but emotional.
It is one thing to read the last words you ever said to your mother on paper, another thing altogether to hear them being shouted over and over again through headphones.
That said, it is extraordinarily comforting to turn around with tears in your eyes and find everyone else crying with you.
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