Trapped in a Nightmare
BBC Radio 4
The Radio 4 Blog

The Shared Experience: Do you believe in ghosts?

Tagged with:

Editor's Note: Listen to The Shared Experience from Tuesday 17 December at 3.30pm

No one could ever explain the dog. No matter how cynical you were you just couldn’t explain the dog. He was called Quinque (my Mum was a thwarted Latin scholar) and he was a perfectly normal and loving mongrel we got from a rescue centre. He did all the usual dog things, alot of wet nosed snuggling and tail wagging and he was definitely a happy dog but sometimes - always of an evening, he would sit at the bottom of the stairs and howl - and I mean really howl, like a wolf in pain. And my Mum’s explanation for this random out of character trait was that he too could see the ghost.

There was meant to be a ghost at Holly Cottage - the house we lived in when I was very young. Some parts of it were very old. And in one of those very old parts there was said to be a ‘priest hole’ built into one side of the fireplace, although we never knocked the bricks out to find it. Legend had it that some poor priest of the wrong religion  had indeed hidden there to avoid being found during the cruel Reformation, that is what a ‘priest hole’ was built for  - and perhaps he had never managed to get out.  

Now this is the kind of tale that frightens the be-Jesus out of you when you are a five year old, and ‘do you believe in ghosts?’ isn’t always the best question to bring up in conversation with the neighbours, so we never found out much more about the village legend. But I know that my Mum was intrigued. She used to stay up late hoping to meet the ghost. Sitting on her own in a dark room with a welcoming smile. She never saw it though.  

Eventually we moved house and away from Hampshire - and I haven’t thought about the ghostly presence in years. But I thought of it alot when we were recording the first in our new series for Radio 4 called The Shared Experience - a programme that does what it says on the tin. We get a group of people together who all have something in common and we talk about it. It’s not a therapy session, but it is a chance to talk in a non-judgemental way about stuff that flits around the edges of life - and to talk about it without being contradicted or challenged by someone who we might classify as an ‘expert’.   

And so our first topic was the majestic ‘I’ve seen a ghost’ - with not a ouija board or an exorciser in sight - just people who are absolutely certain they have seen ghosts. And they aren’t the kind of  people you might think - they don’t all believe in the power of mauve crystals or looking for angels or having a third eye - they’re people like you and me who are sure that they have seen something not explained by science.

Angie has seen a few. Gavin just the one - Alan has a theory about walls and their memory and Jack went out early to fish one morning... and I can’t tell you any more than that, otherwise strange forces might come and get me.  

I’m joking of course, but if only Quinque was still alive I could’ve used him as a spook sniffer dog to see if anyone else was actually in the room with us. I think that all those years ago he must have been trying to tell us that was his unique talent. That, and barking in Latin.  

The BBC is not responsible for the content of external websites

Listen to The Shared Experience 

Tagged with:


This entry is now closed for comments.

  • Comment number 3. Posted by Lucy-Charlotte

    on 20 Dec 2013 12:06

    Yes purpledawn you are right, some of the guests were about to tell us some interesting things that we did not get to hear. Also I wanted to know more about the fact that Angie apparently has seen ghosts before from what she said this was not a 'one off' experience. I would like to listen to more discussions on this topic with additional input. However, it's true that guests should respectuflly be requested not to interrupt as on radio it's really hard for listeners.

    • This entry is now closed for comments. Number of positive ratings for comment 3: 0
    • This entry is now closed for comments. Number of negative ratings for comment 3: 0
  • Comment number 2. Posted by purpledawn54

    on 17 Dec 2013 16:16

    Interesting programme. Fi Glover is an accomplished presenter but I felt the discussion was spoiled by Angie, Alan, John and Fi being constantly interruped by Jack making it difficult to follow the conversation.

    • This entry is now closed for comments. Number of positive ratings for comment 2: 0
    • This entry is now closed for comments. Number of negative ratings for comment 2: 0
  • Comment number 1. Posted by Lucy-Charlotte

    on 15 Dec 2013 15:03

    Does anyone else have anecdotes of situations that are difficult or impossible to explain?
    I am sure that a lot of people do, and I think many people are worried that they will not be
    believed and/or accused of having imagined something.

    • This entry is now closed for comments. Number of positive ratings for comment 1: 0
    • This entry is now closed for comments. Number of negative ratings for comment 1: 0

More Posts