SO HERE'S THE SECRET TO THE... DO YOU WANT TO KNOW IF IT'S A BOY OR A GIRL THING
My wife and I figured it out last night...
...after being seduced by the magical spell of a new baby yesterday we were discussing whether or not we should discover the sex of our little human-to-be.
Up to now we have been convinced we are going to have a boy but still wanted to leave it as a surprise. Last night though we discussed that if we continued to go down the it's- definitely-a-boy route and it turned out to be a girl, it might not be so fair on the little lady. Not a single logical reason as to why we suspect maledom, it's just been a feeling.
We seriously considered finding out next time we visit Doctor Stirrups. Would this be a cop out though ? Were we bottling it ?
It was at this point we realised that all the couples we'd talked to who were also going to leave it as a surprise somehow seemed to find out "accidentally."
We concluded that these "accidents" were manufactured because they just couldn't wait but didn't want to admit it.
If you are reading this Dr. Stirrup and you "accidentally" see anything bobbing around or not bobbing around on the next scan and you "accidentally" mention it to us, we won't hold it, whatever "it" may be against you.