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Keeping The Public happy

Black Country residents have been sharing their experiences in an interactive exhibition at The Public, called Happiness. Wolverhampton's Jonathon Gray explains why coffee, people-watching and traffic-free motoring help to make him feel happy.

The Public fully opened in August 2009

The Public fully opened in August 2009

It's interesting how wide-ranging people's responses are to the concept of happiness.

Everything from family and travelling to food, and even the decade that fashion-sense forgot, the 1980s, have been mentioned by those featuring in the art exhibition at The Public.

One woman even cited the late actor, Patrick Swayze, as the source of her happiness!

Jon works as a data analyst for the NHS

Jon works as a data analyst for the NHS

Indeed, happiness is so abstract that it's hard to sum up as a whole, but if pushed I think it can be expressed most simply in the enjoyment of the little things in life.

One of the first things I think of is something I find very important, and necessary - coffee! I find coffee a source of so many different forms of happiness, especially my first cup in the morning before work.

It wakes me from a sleepy state of delirium, comforts me like my favourite woolly blanket and finally shakes me into action.

There's coffee and then there's drinking coffee in a coffee shop. For me there's nothing I love more than sitting watching the world go by.

Cup of coffee

Jon needs his early morning cuppa!

On my little trips to my regular haunts in Wolverhampton I love to ‘people watch’ and my attention is always drawn to one particular middle-aged lady.

A specific glass

It’s this lady’s ritualistic approach to her newspaper-reading, coffee-drinking extravaganza that fascinates me.

Each day, on arriving just before the café gets busy at lunchtime, she happens to sit in the same spot alone and is quite methodical in her preparation.

She collects her coffee, which she always asks for in a specific glass, and is rude if she doesn’t get it just right.

She then proceeds to one of the few four-seater tables and turns her Daily Mail into a tablecloth.

West Park, Wolverhampton

West Park, Wolverhampton

West Park

This makes me smile to myself, mostly in anticipation of what's to follow.

As the café tables are filled, groups of people looking for one always hover near her expecting she might move to a smaller table.

She just ignores the coughs, and other less-than-subtle hints directed her way. Nothing makes her budge and I hope nothing ever will!

Chased by geese

Being outdoors brings just as much happiness though. West Park is my 'local' and I find it a great place to observe the ducks, and clear my head.

Seeing the schoolkids charging around, kicking piles of leaves at each other makes me smile as it reminds me of my own childhood and of more carefree times.

One of the 'happy' exhibitions

One of the 'happy' exhibitions

When passing through the park, I’ll often see the same dishevelled man clutching a can of super-strength larger. Usually he’s being chased by geese and his ability to never spill a drop always makes me laugh, as much as the thought that the animals might fancy a drop!

A group of ‘hoodies’ reminded me of the good in people, too. An elderly lady walking around the park with lots of shopping was approached by a crowd of moody-looking teenagers.

I thought I might have to intervene, but I was wrong. I smiled when I saw this group of tough-looking lads help her across the road.

Long-distance journeys

The absence of something expected can also bring happiness. I find driving a pleasure but mainly when there's no-one else on the road, which is hardly ever.

Jonathon Gray and girlfriend Rosemarie Wassenaar

Jonathon, 26, and girlfriend Rosemarie

A couple of weeks ago, though, I discovered the M6 toll road for the first time.

It costs but this piece of road's a marvel, mainly because there's nobody on it!

It's such a wonderful feeling having three lanes and only two or three other cars to share them with; you really get a feel for what it must have been like in the late 50s when motorways first opened and motoring was still a joy.

Happiness then, it seems, is life. Of course, I should add that happiness could not be happiness without my girlfriend, Rosemarie!

The Happiness exhibition is being held at The Public and will run from Tuesday 20 October until Friday 27 November.

Artists from community arts organisation Multistory worked with residents in Sandwell, Dudley, Walsall and Wolverhampton from seven diverse groups to help them stencil, spray, glue and sew their ideas of happiness onto special pre-fabricated cardboard houses.

They have been brought together to create an estate of ‘Happiness Houses' as part of the project.

Those taking part include: Yemeni women, young mums, older people with dementia, young deaf people, South Asian women from the Navjaveen Project, users of the Women’s Wellbeing Centre, women affected by domestic violence, and users of Dudley Mind.

last updated: 23/10/2009 at 13:32
created: 20/10/2009

Have Your Say

What makes you happy?

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Simon Glover
Happiness is an emotion that is difficult to define. It could be the warm sensation that blossoms from within and rises through one's very soul following a great accomplishment. Perhaps the discovery of love, achieving excellence in an aspect of everyday life or the conquering of adversity could all inspire this euphoric emotion. Regardless of its source, however, nothing encapsulates contentment more effectively than a smile. This powerful expression not only represents one's delight but becomes positively infectious, circulating to those individuals privileged enough to witness it. A smile can banish ones deepest concerns for even a split second and it is this instance that jubilation can be experienced. For this reason perhaps happiness can be defined most effectively by a smile.

Paulien Rutten
I like your writing style! and love the ending! so cute!

Katarzyna Krawczyk
During our everyday life we do not see happiness making circles around us all the time. We try to fool ourselves with false happiness. Mostly it is promotion, purchase of something new, for example car, or a trip to some exotic places etc. For me happiness is something different and I have to admit that I discovered it not that long ago. It is the feeling of being satisfied about who I am and what I look like. That there are people who understand and accept me. That those people want to spend time with me and share their sorrows and happiness with me. It is also the feeling that I know I have a family who supports and loves me and I know that I will be never be left alone. I also know that for those people I would do everything to make them feel better. It makes me feel happy that they know they can count on me every day. Happiness, for me, is when I stop for a moment and see all those people beside me.

Ian B
A well written, articulate and well thought out article. A personal perspective outlines the subjective nature of happiness, it's all relative.

Anna Szymanowska
I'm a 22-year old Polish girl, who left her hearth and home 4 years ago hoping for the best.Living over a thousand miles from my friends and family taught me how to enjoy the smallest things. I was no longer waiting for a great happiness to come one day. I felt happy when I settled in my first rented room, my own space. I got my first salary after that. That meant shopping, and very first things bought for my own money. I can also feel the thrill of joy after I have passed my first exam. It was probably one of the happiest days of my parents’ life. They were proud of me, and that made me even happier. What I know for sure is that happiness does not come suddenly. There is a long way to happiness, paved with challenges and adversities. You can be happy, when you can look back in time and be proud about all the things you have done.

Dieuwke van der Veen
What makes me happy is my niece Rosemarie. So proud she is of Jonathon!

Mary
Decorating the house for Christmas :)

Anneke
lots and lots of tea

James Fearon
What a lovely piece! So refreshingly different and uplifting. I loved the observation of the old lady.Well done

Scott
Manchester United, Wheeler Dealers, Last FM, Sky +, my missus' cooking and my family!

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