Read what others have said..

Bobby Singh, Bedford
About time we discussed the issue and how and where and when it should be worn. Many Sikh youth have decided to cut it all off? This has affected both Sikhs and Muslims should they chop off all there hair? What power does the hair have, is there any reason to keep it going? What does it truly represent? Can you hair be a spritual? Will Guru Gobind Singh reach out for all Sikhs in Hell and tug them from hell by there hair? Forget superstition and be at one with your body, represent yourself in your natural form and live long and prosper. !!!
Wed May 9 20:34:29 2007

Mr Surinder Singh - Portsmouth
Hi,I have a few things to say, firstly my Turban is the most precious thing in the world, without it i am without an identity.Secondly, Bin Laden is not a Sikh, and therefore does not wear a turban. As a Full Sikh with fully kept hair, nothing turns me on more than when i walk into a crowded place and get everyone turn and look at me. I feel really sorry for the lost souls that try to conform, dont succeed and in doing so lose their identity.Always be proud of where your from, what you look like and what you do.Its not difficult really.
Wed May 9 15:49:45 2007

JC Nottingham
Their are so many issues expressed here,if life was so simple,and everyone held the views below...we would not have the problems we all talk about,a large proportion our those in our own sikh communities...do we care to ask ourselves what changes are necessary for our communiites for a more healthier and balanced,not defensive approach to the issue of turban wearing,and being a sikh. If we are critical of men and women who cut their hair and they claim to have a faith in sikhism,then how are we going to really reach them...you will need them...believe me...dont be blinded to their faith but envelope them with your love,otherwise you will come across as defensive and unkind.I understand the gurus were warriors of the faith,but surely they taught the kindness of guru Nanak,the generiosty,and the spiritual faith we must have to deal with life also.This is the sikhism my parents taught me.
Wed May 9 10:49:30 2007

Jo Havloudjian, Leicester UK
I am a white English woman and I'd just like to reassure Sikh men that it's not just the clean shaven men who get the women. I know lots of girls who love hairy men!
Tue May 8 16:02:32 2007

Harpreet kaur, Leicester. uk
A fab documentary! The male members in my family has always worn dastaar and it never raised any questions in my mind. But now as a parent, I always have to justify and convince my 9 year old son about what Sikhi and keeping the hair is about. I always tell him that being a turbaned sikh is being very special amongst the crowd and you would always be distinguised and recognised first. However I feel that I have not been able to convince him contiously because he is not very confident about being an only pathka boy in his class/ school.I personally think this stigma in children crops up from schools and peer pressure and it is only possible to eradicate if we educate not only sikh children but everyone else as well about the importance and reasons of our identity by doing different workshops and assembelies in schools so that children are exposed to this knowledge and can accept the sikh identity and our sikh children can be more confident and concientious about their identity.
Mon May 7 22:19:20 2007

Bally, Solihull
Very informative documentary. I really enjoyed it
Mon May 7 16:07:38 2007

Maya, W Mids
The turban is a form of identity just like the hijjab is for women in islam. Its an option, its a choice and a way of life if nothing more. I think insecurities about turbans and those who choose to wear them do not necessarily stem from society but from sikhs themselves and inner cultural pressures to stand out from the rest, to show an abundance of pride and to prove a point.. that ur more into your religion, more respectful, more in tune with ur identity than the next man standing next to you. It proves nothing to the onlooker cos like someone said below there's too much contradiction and confusion about 'identity' and 'belonging' in focused religious groups such as sikhism and islam. It seems like the turban is adopted as a mere accessory. It forms part of an image cos some wearers lack the understanding and appreciation.Religious sects are no longer isolated and so any complexes ppl have must come from themselves or from within their own society. Its not just about standing out or making a statement.. it goes way deeper than that. Respect to everyone for how they want to be in this life.
Mon May 7 13:21:47 2007

SAT , bham
reading these articles i think that you shouldnt be pround of being a sikh with or with-out turban. sikh people did have a lot of troubles with 9/11 but these promblems are getting resolved.people refering to girls has nothing to do with it. As a sikh its your choice to keep your hair, i agree that it is a symbol. But due to the recent events in bham "handsworth" the sikh communtiy has been given a bad name. i am a sikh, and i agree with my turban....
Sat May 5 17:10:15 2007

Proud Singh, Wolverhampton
i live in wolves where there are lots of sikhs bt many of them have cut their hair and shaved, but im in a part of wolves were there r not many singhz n i am da only singh in my year in skul, i do stand out bt da way i am i also fit in with otherz, at da start ppl did give weird luks but afta sumtym wen dey gt 2 kno me it ws all normal no one says nytin to me, talkin bout girls there are mostly white girls in my skul and they don't say nytin bout turban so da girls who claim to be sikh n want boys to cut their hair should not call the selves sikhalso there are a few ova sikhs in my skul who have cut their hair bt if we talk bout religion in skul or sumtin den ppl who r not sikh say to them wt makes u a sikh if u can't keep u're hair n turban n my frends have no answer n dats da time i feeel sooooo proud to b a singh n jus laugh at dem who have cut their hair
Sat May 5 13:49:25 2007

Kanwar Nijjer
I am serving in Canadian Military. I just start wearing turban, I find it gives me more strenght and command over my subordinates. We have to realize, we are lions. We should roar but not to act as sheeps. Parents has to install confidence of sikhism into kids. Educate them but not to force them or get them bored by useless rituals. Once kids are proud of themselves, they will keep their identity. Sikhs who mocks the turban lacks the self confidence and forgot that they are breed of lions. These lions have fought in world wars, tamed the afghans, almost bought the british to their knees. Any one can read Guru Granth Sahib, but khalsa requires the uniform. Time to be proud who we are. Ones superiority and confidence attracts the opposite sex. In military every one compliments me on my turban. Sikh should have great stature, body built like an iron. Then turban will give the personllity. No Khalsa shall be overweight.
Wed May 2 18:04:44 2007

Mr H Singh
I was very unlucky to visit the Vaisakhi "Jungle" Mela today in Handsworth Park, Birmingham with my family including 2 children both under 5 years! Only to witness disgusting behaviour from community elders using violence and bad language to express their politcal views! I will now petition the government to ban this event in the future! I wish I had taken my children to a more civilized event like that held in West Bromwich for St. Georges Day! Please air my views!
Sun Apr 22 21:26:19 2007

simran, derby
I cannot believe some of the bigotry in the comments being made. The Gurus fought for freedom of expression long before it became a western, americanised sound bite. The outward symbols of Sikhism are just that - it is what is in your heart & soul that is important. I know plenty of Sikhs who wear the turban or have long uncut hair & wouldn't know the first thing about how to treat others with respect & consideration. Be proud of being a Sikh & be proud that our religion sought to eradicate inequality, bigotry, prejudice, poverty etc. long before any western culture did. That surely must be more important than whether you wear a turban or have cut your hair. I support the right of anyone to wear what they want but lets not seek the moral highground because we think we are better than those who have cut their hair.
Sun Apr 1 17:12:52 2007

Deepa Singh, London, age 22
I think many people (particularly the younger generation) seem to think by not having a turban it’s easier to get girls. Is that all most people live for? I have had a Turban all my life, Im so proud of it. Tying my Turban everyday reminds of whom I am and my religion. Im lucky in London most people know who Sikhs are, I don’t get dirty/weird looks. Even If I did it wouldn’t bother me. If your belief in your religion and identity means so much to you there is simply no excuse for cutting your hair. You only have to look back in time to see how many thousands off people have sacrificed their lives for our identity and beliefs. Maybe it’s a little strong of me saying this, but by us cutting our hair what respect does that show for those people in the past, those people who sacrificed their lives for our well-being today. I see a lot of people who cut their hair walking around with big Khanda chains, if one wants to represent our Sikh religion and not look a normal person in society….. Keep a Turban, look different, be proud of being different that’s what Sikhi is all about!
Wed Mar 7 13:02:59 2007

Abhijeet Singh, Mumbai
I am from Mumbai and if have actually seen that some of my friends don't know da values and sacrifices which our gurus have given, so they cut their hair. It’s not their fault. its their parents who have taken them away from Sikhism. they even fail 2 converse in Punjabi. its all about what u learn at your house. Talking about girls. its really sad Sikh girls here don’t know d values of Sikhs. Leave the custards they go for Muslims. I think non-Sikh girls are better then them. I have many non-Sikh friends. They love my turban, my khanda and my attitude. they say that turbaned Sikhs are smarter than others. so its important 2 create an awareness among Sikh girls where r they heading too....
Wed Mar 7 07:56:42 2007

Baldev Singh, London
Wow! A brilliant documentary, very informative. I'm proud to have kept my hair and turban.
Mon Mar 5 21:17:35 2007

Ramanpal Singh , Chandigarh
Till the age of 22 I was keeping my hair uncut with turban on head. At 23 I got myself clean shaven. I felt myself to look very smart. I continued for 2 yrs like this and in all these 2 years I felt to have lost my identity.I couldnt distinguish myself within a crowd. Then I decided to revert back to turban. I also restored my hair. Incidently I had to hav official trips to US and Europr and I felt people to recognise me with my turban . I got more respect and made myself distinguished. Iam now a proud Turbanator.
Sun Mar 4 19:45:01 2007

Sim Singh
The last time i checked, i was indeed a sikh and fairly proud to be 1 if i may say so. I've read some of the comments posted below and am not impressed. There is nothing difficult about wearing a turban in this day and age, maybe even easier done then said! unless you're having a bad hair day! I've lived, studied and worked in a Predominantly white area all my life and have never come accross any problems, therefore those of you who are experiencing difficulties need to look a bit closer to home, perhaps its your attitude or the way you automatically asume you are a victim. SORT IT OUT. As my mother would say, if you cant take the heat get out of the kitchen. In the same way if you're going to wear a pugh, dont moan about the way you may or may not be treated. sim singh
Wed Feb 28 15:14:35 2007

Talwinder Singh, Punjab, India
Turban is not only to cover your head and keep hair clean. It is "A Symbol", a symbol of sikhism, a symbol of "Khalsa - Guru Ki Fauz". If being a sikh, one can't tie a turban and can't have uncut hair, he is not a sikh. Once Guru Gobind singh ji said that "Menu sikh payara nahien, menu rehat payari hai" means I love only that sikh who keep basic sikh identities. Turban is our identity and we are nothing without it. In nowadays we have to keep our spirit high and face bravely this modernized COULTURE which have no values, ideals, traditions etc. At last just say with me "Waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fateh". One day waheguru will win and we will be able to keep our Unique Identity and show to the world that what it means to be a sikh. **We are proud to be a Sikh"
Tue Feb 27 10:53:25 2007

Lakhbir Singh, Warrington
I am so so proud of my turban. It gives me great joy every morning as I select my shirt, tie and matching turban. I love tying my turban, I love the different colours. Everyone in the office wonders and marvels at my turban and my self respect is ever so increased when I get asked questions about my turban and sikhs in general. I'm not advocating that everyone should wear a Turban, that is one's opinion and individual interpretation of sikh history. For me, i fondly believe, it is my heritage, of which I am so very proud of.
Tue Feb 27 10:44:55 2007

Karam, Malaysia
Turban or no turban, hair kept long or cut....are you not still a sikh...from the moment you are born as a SIKH. Where does it say in the Granth Sahib a Sikh must wear a turban or even keep is hair uncut in his lifetime ? When KHALSA was created, there were rules to keep the identity of Khalsa within the SIKHS. Khalsa in its 5Ks, never says about the turban but Guru Gobind said "Khalsa mera Roop".Can I just keep my long hair tied neatly without having a turban on and still remain a Sikh? For that and the culture then, the image of KING is respected with a turban on his head...yes if you want to be KHALSA then you need to prepare for that otherwise remain as a SIKH with or without the turban ; or with or without the hair cut. By the way we came without the turban into this world.....on our return the turban or other matters remain behind.....what is natural part of you goes with you.
Tue Feb 27 06:38:35 2007

Gurpreet Dhillon Tracy, USA
The presentation on turban was well done, and brought up the issues faced everyday in the Western societies by Sikh men. Thanks for bringing up this important topic and creating awareness regarding negative images after 9/11. Keep up the good work through this powerful medium called Internet. It has broght me closer to BBC Asian network/punjabi programs while living in USA in real time.
Tue Feb 27 05:56:18 2007

Ms Kaur Malaysia
Dear Fellow Sikhs All you guys out there, please remember that it is very important that we wear a turban and it equally important that we also keep our uncut hair. kaur
Tue Feb 27 03:30:24 2007

JAIDEV SINGH ANAND,USA
Every time somebody asks me,is it hard to wear this ? I always say not if you know where your head is. Most people get the message loud and clear. I have lived in USA since Jan 1970.
Mon Feb 26 12:23:02 2007

Rajwant Singh Kalsi, Brazil
Turban really calls attention in the country where people do not know about it. People call the turbaned Sikh Ali Baba and after this September episode call Osama, by ignorance. Though I appeared various times on TV programs to inform what a Sikh is but still it is difficult to make really the masses know what a Sikh is and why we use the turban. With the help of Sikh Coalition I could manage a folder in the Portuguese language as an immediate hand out to tell about "The Sikhs". I have faced mockery by the ignorant but officially never ever any discrimination. The late Dilbagh Singh when he was India s ambassador in Brazil made good publicity of sikhs and now recently the visit of Prime Minister Dr. Manmohan Singh to Brazil made much more Brazilians know about the turban. Hope in the future the turbaned Sikhs do some excellent and important inventions and discoveries then the entire world will know what is a Sikh. Hope the day is not too far. My Gur Fateh to all Sikhs and specially those who use turban.
Sun Feb 25 00:12:17 2007

Harmeet Queens, New York
To CleanShavenHindu, The Dastaar is a symbol and necessity of Sikhism. Guru Gobind Singh Ji made it mandatory for Sikhs to wear a Dastaar and carry and represent as a King. This Knightly form reminds me of my duties in the form of justice and perserverence.The five K's include Kesh, which is keeping your hair right? which is something you're not doing. So you've already classified yourself as non-Sikh So it is a part of Sikhism. Don't justify your wrong actions and guilt by putting down the righteous. In fact do us all a favor, people such as yourself are not needed in the fold, you are too weak. Sikhs used to die to protect their hair and those around them, in the name of justice and honor. We don't need you, the Sikhs were never about numbers but about quality. What is your motivation? modern society, the women who will accept you? They themselves don't know what to think or who they are, they hide themselves behind layers of makeup so don't value the opinions of the shallow. Let them get married to clean shaven guys and let them guzzle down bottles of black label.
Sat Feb 24 21:30:50 2007

HM London
BIG UP!!! Asian Network for this Report!! I feel that I have been heard and achieved my goal. I felt at peace hearing this report, my work has been done. CONGRATULATIONS! People tell me that my Turban is smart. I do get girls talking to me of all backgrounds, but when they do people get jealous and make out that I'm harassing them! Lot of difference between harassment and talking and making conversation! I stand out, I'm different, BUT I'm proud, without my Turban I am not me, I would be someone else. MY TURBAN IS ME! Thank You Asian Network!!!
Sat Feb 24 14:41:48 2007

Jagtej Singh..Swiss
Waheguruji ka Khlasa Waheguruji ki Fateh I was a Gursikh when i came in Swiss in 2003..stayed high with spirits and Sikhism for about 1 year,but people here have no knowledge about Sikhs and also got certain problems due to which i had no chance of returning back...but now i got PR here and soon will be in Sikhi Saroop again.... Charde Kala Raj Karega Khalsa
Sat Feb 24 12:23:44 2007

Ranjeet singh AGE 29,Cardiff,UK
I cannot think of myself alive without my elegant turban.Nurses and colleagues on my unit always admire the style and beauty of my turban.Our GURUs and sikhs have sacrificed their lives to save sikh identity.I really struggle to understand how some sikhs manage to ignore our great history and remove their turbans and cut hair.
Sat Feb 24 08:45:09 2007

Jaspal, Singapore
Good discussion going on about turban, myself I am a turban wearing Sikh and will do the same until my last breath. Sikhs have withstood all the bad patches in the past and evolved as winner. We are brave and committed not only to our religion but to our duties as well. I am sure khalsa will still rule our heart and soul. Lets put our wholehearted efforts to move forward keeping our turban and religion alive.
Sat Feb 24 02:26:56 2007

K, peterborough
guru gobind singh ji maharaj said: "sabat boorath, sirr dastar". every human being was given an image from god and it is our duty to keep it.
Fri Feb 23 08:35:49 2007

ramandeep singh,india,delhi
I would just like to say that I am proud of my turban. I know that sometimes it is hard to blend in the community and people to accept who you are. I have always worn a turban all my life. It is the small minority that spoils it for everyone. People choose to discriminate without thinking of your religion but straight away point at your turban. I am proud to be a Sikh, be truthful to yourself and have truthful living.
Fri Feb 23 08:14:07 2007

manpeet, malaysia
when we were made sikhs, or khalsa, we were given the gift of a turban, at a time when only kings and saints donned it. We are now distinctive and we are given the gift of the epitome of religious symboloism, the turban. we are to live like saints and at the same time , give life to the opressed. well this gift signifies the trust, and immense love God gave us, that is to live a saint and be distinctive, coupled with of course, strong religious values. be proud to tie your tubans sikhs!
Fri Feb 23 08:01:26 2007

Ranbir Bedi G Yarmouth
I disagree that it is difficult to wear turban in the UK etc. I had been working in this country and Euorpe with turban with no difficulties. It is what and how you treat the other people being a sikh. Please note, TILL TODAY I AM THE ONLY SIKH IN THIS COUNTRY WORKING AS A AIR TRAFFIC CONTROLLER AND AIRPORT MANAGERand still wear turban and proud of it, with no discrimination. THE world will treat you acoording to your merits not judge by your turban. It is people's fear to work as a sikh in this country, bearing in mind if you take your turban off you will be judged by the other people as non sikh and related to current problems, you will loose out your identity and treated and judged by your colour of the Asian skin.
Fri Feb 23 06:32:23 2007

Gurtej Singh (Australia)
I just cut my hair last week and i have to say it was the hardest things i have ever done. Something i grew for 20 years with respect tied it every morning and now its gone just like that. Keeping a turban is hard i know and so is cutting my hair. But the real challenge for me is now showing my mates and everyone around a middle finger and keeping my hair again and start tying my turban and with extreme respect this time. Will i (Will you) ever succeed in this, Lets see? And a warrior race that ruled Afghan tribesmen for decades, the most ruthless of warriors, the sikhs and my ancestors..... Do i have their blood, If i do i will tie that turban again because it is something very simple and i will not take old age to hit it. I will show that person that i am extreme of handsome with or without my turban and my office mates can shove it but the turban goes on because i feel like a nobody without it..... I want to be a turban wearing sikh because that was my destiny and that cannot be changed!!!!!!!!
Fri Feb 23 01:27:30 2007

J SINGH IPSWICH
I have been proudly waring my turban for 20 years and i feel very strongly about wearing it. i have seen those around me cut there hair and shave there beards for there own reasons. my turban makes me who and what i am today. my grandfarther. my father and my brother all whore turbans and i feel proud to follow in there footsteps. be proud to be diffrent.
Thu Feb 22 23:05:54 2007

Harmeet Singh UK
How can some one call themselves a sikh if they do not wear a turban and have cut hair! I think that every sikh should wear a turban (keep their kes). Whenever I see a indian I automaticaly see them as either a hindu or a muslim if they have got cut hair. Atleast if they wore a turban people would be able to correctly identify them as sikhs.
Thu Feb 22 22:34:59 2007

azad singh, (very old) london
Galelio was born 1n 1564 just one year after Guru Arjan. Guru Arjan Dev was executed for writing a book, may years later Galelio was imprisioned for publishing his book.Voltaire (b:1694) said he would give his life to allow a person to have his own oppinion, Guru Thegbahadar was executed in 1674 for he wanted people to be allowed to belive what they wanted to belive. For me wearing a turban is akin to a soldiers ID tag, it represents freedom for All.
Thu Feb 22 21:11:02 2007

anonymous
"in today's image-obsessed society, where the clean-shaven guys get the girls and the hairy ones just get the laughs, and when perhaps the best-known turban wearer of the day is Osama Bin Laden"...these are just excuses...one should have pride and face the challenge
Thu Feb 22 19:17:21 2007

Manpreet S Khalsa - mumbai, India
First of all with turban u look different,unique and smart.But incase of non-turban peoples who don't wear turban doesn't look so smart or unique.Becoz its a type of fashion that is matching to ur dressing style whatso ever u wear.Turban represents uniquesness,Royalty and purity and also keeps ur hair clean.So east or west turban wearing peoples r the best.
Thu Feb 22 18:33:43 2007

Manpreet s Khalsa - mumbai, India
First of all with turban u look different,unique and smart.But incase of non-turban peoples who don't wear turban doesn't look so smart or unique.Becoz its a type of fashion that is matching to ur dressing style whatso ever u wear.Turban represents uniquesness,Royalty and purity and also keeps ur hair clean.So east or west turban wearing peoples r the best.
Thu Feb 22 18:33:32 2007

Virender, London
When I see a Sikh wearing one I am filled with pride and respect for them keeping true to their values. However the turban must be followed up with right, honourable living, if not, then the turban is nothing more than an empty gesture
Thu Feb 22 18:04:49 2007

Charanjit, UK
I have always worn a turban with pride and feel that it is a very important part of my identity. I work for a UK airline and have travelled to many parts of the world where people have never seen a Sikh before and yes, you do you get strange looks now and again however its usually purely due to a lack of knowledge as opposed to any malice. unfortunately the turban is occasionally associated with negative aspects of life eg terrorists but again education can sort that one out. I'm sure many people have had second thoughts on occasion about wearing a turban for whatever reason (me included); but for me, there's something deep down that makes my turban an intrinsic part of my character and connects me to my culture and heritage. Be proud!
Thu Feb 22 16:58:30 2007

G, birmingham
I would just like to say that I am proud of my turban. I know that sometimes it is hard to blend in the community and people to accept who you are. I have always worn a turban all my life. It is the small minority that spoils it for everyone. People choose to discriminate without thinking of your religion but straight away point at your turban. I am proud to be a Sikh, be truthful to yourself and have truthful living.
Thu Feb 22 13:06:10 2007

Gagandeep Singh, Chandigarh
Will you call the person a Sikh without a dastaar or turban? I really dont think so because this is what gives us a distinguished identity from others. Really dont care about what people and specially the girls think in this so called modern society. I think I'm so smart and handsome wearing my neat and tidy turban.
Thu Feb 22 09:26:02 2007

Jaspal, Toronto
It is cool to be different. You notice growing up everyone wants to fit in & be the same, but as you grow older post-teen, university years it's all about being individual. My turban makes me different & I love it. There are times where you'll encounter negative attention but as long as you're a good person & treat people with respect, you'll get the same respect in return. The most important/difficult years are growing up through your teens and the influences & ignorance that comes your way. What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger.
Wed Feb 21 22:45:53 2007

sharndeep singh from usa
i think that is not good we dont deserve this but ur right and i think someday we will show them who we are and i have a feeling it will be soon
Wed Feb 21 19:50:16 2007

Pushproop Singh BRAMPTON CAANADA
I think wearing a turban is important for sikh faith.I got my hair cut 10yrs ago.But my brother who is in US still has hair and beard. He gets respect and love for his fatih. Now I am in the process of growing my hair and beard. It should be a target to get a civil rights law enforced that laughing on Turbaned Sikhs is an offence punshiable by law. The awarness should be brought in the minds of young girls to accept turbaned boys for marriage. If we look around other religons in Muslims the girls want the boy to accept Islam before marriage.It is only awarness,unity and respect within our hearts which will give Khalsa panth its true place. If the American Sikhs can survive and grow with turban and beard why do have an issue?
Wed Feb 21 12:38:32 2007

Deepa, London, Seven Kings
I live in a Sikh populated area. I have however seen other people’s attitudes towards Singhs/Kaurs with Dastaar. I think a reason why people taunt others is because they don’t understand the importance/belief having a dastaar is in Sikhi. I think it is our duty to inform those people of whom we are and why we keep a dastaar. Wearing my Dastaar everyday reminds me of who am I and my background, and I wouldn’t change it for anyone in the world! A saying from our past gurus reflects this…. Sir Jaava Taa Jaava Par Meri Sikhi Sidq naa jaave. Meaning If my head goes then so be it, but may I never give up my Sikh faith
Wed Feb 21 12:18:05 2007

Clean shaven Sikh.
Historically, the turban is a (eastern) head covering. In Sikhism, it became a way of covering the kesh, and hence became entwined with the traditions of the religion and a de-facto symbol of Sikhism, although it is not one of the five K's. However, with the turban now becoming a fashion item how reliable is it as a sign of Sikhism? Also, I feel that elements such as Bin Laden deliberately use the turban in an attempt to confuse and influence asian minorities, including Sikhs. Sikhism is more than the turban! The five K's, and the way you live your life, are more important.
Wed Feb 21 10:51:33 2007

Sunny Singh Hillingdon age 29
Without a crown there is no king, without a pugh there is no Singh! Be proud of what and who you are! Just think how lucky you are to wear the pugh on your head. Millions of our brothers, sisters, elders and children gave up their life’s just so that our faith will never be extinct. We are fearless warrior soldiers! Be proud brothers, keep your heads up and wear your pugh with pride! Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Je Ke Fateh!
Wed Feb 21 08:41:12 2007

NPS Saini Kinshasa (Democratic Republic of Con
Am always proud of my turban. Having travelled to many countries, my turban has always helped me in getting the things done for my bureau. I must say that I have always been preferred because of my turban. It presents you different from others and adds to sophistification.I have always been noticed because of my nicely tied turban and matching attire. I always thank my Guru for his invalaubale gift to me.
Wed Feb 21 08:16:23 2007

Harminder Kaur New York
I have been tying a Dastaar ever since i took Amrit by the Guru's wonderful Grace. I am proud to tie it and feel beautiful with it than without. Living in the Guru's Bana is awesome; keeping a turban is a part of it. Don't discard ur Grace, ur Crown, ur Self Respect by discarding ur turban. Hard times always come but a Gursikh can always go through them in Chardi Kala. 9-11 was a hardship too but many Gursikhs live in Chardi Kala and let every1 know the significance of the Dastaar. My friends in high school really respected it once they came to know. Besides, a Gursikh is meant to STAND OUT!!!!
Wed Feb 21 07:10:35 2007

Sukhjit , Muscat , Sultanate Of Oman
To me , my turban is something which is part of myself,my culture and of course part of my religon. But now when in Punjab which is root of SIKHISM,we see most of the SINGH/SIKH are not wearing turban. Being away from my country and Punjab i always felt that one must have his/her own identity and i think Turban plays a very vital role in that. I think our Sikh intellectuals need to work( and of course the present generation) on to save this culture and need more awareness to spread word about turban and its significance. We can take a very live example from American Sikh. And indeed it will help our SIKH/SINGHs to maintain their most important part to be SINGH OR SIKH as it is well known from wearing turban . And strictly if a SIKH person is not wearing TURBAN he is not having right to put SINGH after his name( no offence/ my views onyly).
Wed Feb 21 06:48:29 2007

Jag Singh ,Melbourne Australia.
Here i would like to add is Sikhism is a very soft religion,easy to divert and mould as per your convinient, rather than Muslim, Hindu, Jews. I recommend 'Sunnat' in Muslim is the most drivable source towards their religion. Surprisingly all human born as keshdhari but does not wants to live natural.I am pretty sure even after changing their natural looks they don t acheive more than a natural looking personality in life. Actually its Parents responsibility rather than individual iwould say, if we provide proper food to a young plant, there is no question they would not grow healthy does nt matter male or female. At the end of the day all cleansaven's should look into American Sikhs Personality and looks. Do they really look better than American Sikhs.
Wed Feb 21 06:26:06 2007

Anildev Singh Malhi, Manipal, India
Work has to be done to explain the significance of the Sikh turban. Your efforts are welcomed and appreciated. It's not true that only clean shaven guys get girls. But perhaps clean shaven guys have a better chance. Ignorance needs to be dispelled, people need educated and Sikhs need to realise the beauty and value of our dastaar.
Wed Feb 21 03:07:06 2007

Rajwant Singh Kalsi , Florianópolis ,Brazil
A good percentage of Sikhs in Punjab where there is no discrimination to the wearer are avoiding the use of turban!!This is lack of sense of religion right at the roots. Sikhs in abroad some times suffer discrimination to get employment and they get rid of turban as their option but sikhs with higher education and specialization never ever suffer this type of discrimination. My suggestion,we the sikhs should give higher education to our kids, specialize them in their profession and for them in India there are tremendous opportunities but even though if they still want to make a career in abroad then never ever they will suffer discrimination.The sense of religion and interest should sprout from within the person, impositions never last long.
Wed Feb 21 01:21:43 2007

Harnek Singh, South Carolina USA
I have worn my turban everywhere, in North Dakota where I was the only Sikh in perhaps the entire state. My kids wear dastars too and proudly. After all what are we without the crowning glory. However, I do feel sad when girls prefer clean shaven guys, including my sisters. The reason for more and more clean shaven guys as these shallow girls who do not understand the depth and value of the gift bestowed to us bu our father Guru Gobind Singh.
Wed Feb 21 01:05:06 2007

Dharti Dhakel Singh, Waterloo, Canada
It's strange. I did not wear my turban so much in India but since I have come to Toronto and found so many Singhs and Kaurs wearing their turban, I feel proud in wearing my turban too. Without it, I feel naked.
Wed Feb 21 00:44:58 2007

Gurinder Singh, Toronto
It is unfortunate that most of the Sikh youths belive in removing turban and hair to make themselves up to date in fashion. Whereas, it would have been more result oriented if these Sikh youth become a missionary to spread awareness about Sikhism around the globe. I am sure that such measures will remove so many doubts about our community on the international level. I daily wear my turban with proud but cannot allow my identity to be changed while in foreign land or elsewhere. When other community people cannot change their identity why we are shamelessly doing the same and that too without showing any respect towards our shining history. Perhaps, we can wear our turban gracefully, stylish and can make it a fashion signature without making it hard to wear.
Wed Feb 21 00:18:08 2007

india
I feel very pround tobe sikh but dont you people think who taking care of sikhism. I have one answer for that GIRLS are responsible for that. Out of 100/99 wants that i want clean shaved guy and the boys going to impresed them and cut their beard and hair we have to our child that we if we born sikh we have to died sikh. i am not using harsh words and language but i want to open your eyes if this should be implemented might be 25% things can be changed IS't it.
Tue Feb 20 21:37:37 2007

Bharat Vir Singh,Derby
It is interesting to see that BBC is always very eager to present programmes dealing with anti-Sikh or un-Sikh subjects.It is always the work of comedians.Few years ago,BBC presented a comic look at Sikhs by Sodi Singh Kahlon of the Funjabi fame.I wonder if BBC has an ulterior motive behind this,like its own agenda of its own version of Sikhism!Can we kindly look forward to something serious and decent from Aunty Beeb about Sikhs and Sikhism?
Tue Feb 20 21:04:35 2007

roopinder bains, surrey b.c. canada
in 1989 i visited california and a young child approached me and asked me " where did you get that crown from ? " he had never seen a fellow wearing a turban and associated with such a positive thing .
Tue Feb 20 19:40:07 2007

king gurinder singh U.S.A
"you got to change your looks to survive in states" was said to me number of times.I not only knew but believed in shabad(sail pathar main jant upaya takka rijjak agay kar tharia)which always gave me strength,gone thru all turmoils 2 succesful businessman w/Gods-Grace.
Tue Feb 20 18:56:55 2007

Rajinder Singh, Birmingham
I am very proud of wearing my turban, I wouldn't like looking the same as everybodyelse and without effort - I proudly stand out. At work I am always talked to with respect! I look damn good in my Turban and make sure I do, because with it I represent my family and Sikhs around the world. I would feel naked and incomplete without my turban and love it for it gives me stature and significance.
Tue Feb 20 13:27:19 2007

Jasmit Singh, Birmingham
I have been wearing my turban for 10 years now and for the latter 5 years have started keeping a long beard and have never looked back. Thats when the real tests began - forget strangers but my own relatives mocked me for having a beard and called me all sorts. It did hurt when the foul words came out of their mouths! just to point out that out of my 30 cousin brothers, i am the only one in the family wearing a turban). I thought at the time that my friends would give me a harder time but they never. They accepted me for who i am as a person and not my appearance. It is disappointing to read that some see it as a fashion accessory but not realise the real underlying meaning behind it. Our Gurus fought for this right and todays society has just thrown all those efforts down the drain. So to all those with turban and beards, WELL DONE!!! You have achieved alot more than you know and also bear in mind that if you were in a large crowd with clean shaven men, you will be pointed out as a SIKH and the clean shaven men - well they could be anyone, my point is our identity is visible and respectable. Please accept my apologies for any offence caused.
Tue Feb 20 13:11:52 2007

Manchester
All this talk about the first Sikh "Superstar" to wear the Four Lions and a Gursikh??? The question is why does Montey Panasar not wear a Dastar instead of prading himself with the new look drop down patkha. We young Sikh have enough problems fitting in with the British culture. Ok is not practicle on the green, but what about public performances or in team photos. I would be greatful if Montey takes a leaf out of Bishan Singh Bedhi's book and represent Sikhs in the way we realy should look.
Tue Feb 20 12:26:36 2007

Mani, Edgbaston (Birmingham)
A turban is not a rag 2 keep ya hair in place, but it iz a sikh crown. der iz a bad mentality of ppl assuming dat sikh munde wiv turbans are outsiders and assuming der from other faith's such as muslim or arabic. Ppl who assume dat shud go bak 2 skool and take sum religous study lessons. Ppl shud not question ppl wiv turbans but shud question sikh munde dat dont wear turbans. A TURBAN IZ 4 LYF NOT JUS 4 VASAKHI.
Tue Feb 20 11:14:35 2007

Sukh Gill, Birmingham
Just like Sukhvinder from Wolves said; the 10 mins it takes me in the morning to tie mu Pagri, reminds me of WHO I AM and WHAT I AM. All my life people around me have mainly been clean shaven. My fellow sikh mates who once wore the turban no longer do. However even whilst all this was happening around me; i declined...and how glad I did. Being in my early 20's now I feel very proud to go out there in my Pagri and show people who i am. Obviously there are gonna be times when it's difficult; especially after 9/11. But out forefathers and Gurus refused to cut their hair and defend their faith....and yet now a days people remove their Turban and cut their hair so easily...if only they knew that people gave their lives away for our freedom to wear the pagri. It's a myth that "girls go for clean shaven guys". My fiance had the view that she would never marry a guy with a turban...yet at uni she ended up going out with me. If your a "nice guy" you will meet a "nice girl" whether you wear a pagri or not. Keep the faith, defend the faith.
Tue Feb 20 10:43:58 2007

Indiana, UK
I have a lot of respect for those Sikhs out there that wear the turban today especially the younger generation. My advice to those out there would be:- Wear the turban because you want to wear it and are proud to wear it. Not because you are forced to wear it.
Tue Feb 20 10:13:20 2007

Sat, Manchester
Me and all my brothers, cousins, uncles etc are turban wearing, fully bearded Sikhs. i have never had a issue with my turban. living in Manchester there are not many Sikhs here, so we do tend to stick out. To be honest i go clubbing, to the gym, and have a full social life. i think you can not look smarter than when your turban and beard has come out as you wanted...trust me it helps. the fact i wear a turban does hold me back from messing around, so far as if any one saw me it wouldn't be me but a young Sikh lad messing around thus have to behave! One of the best things about wearing the turban, is the respect you get from other people e.g the Pakistanis uncle. I feel the turban makes me feel proud. i just feel sorry for those who chose to cut off the hair, there faith, our gurus. I'm 99% sure they only do it cos they are lost. i really don't hair cuts as Sikhs, only Punjabi's who end up dating and marrying...lets just call them good time girls! without my turban its right im a pakistani or hindu...nothing wrong with them, but im not one!
Tue Feb 20 09:10:10 2007

Ravinder - Leicester
Anita - I would be devastated if my son said he wanted to cut his hair and I know he has posted a comment today and he wouldn't do it. My husband has a hair cut but wanted to give our son a 'right' start. He has the normal comments such as raghead etc. but then he has also had comments about his colour. Its extremely sad if guys are cutting their hair 'cos a girl says so or 'cos they think they won't be bullied - look beyond and they are normal people - my son has never missed out, he had trips away - his teachers helped to plait his hair - he's a very confident and lovable person.
Mon Feb 19 21:56:34 2007

Perdeep Singh, Leicester
i am 17 and have now been wearing my turban for about 6 years. i have grown up as if it is a part of me and not something i have to 'live with'. most other people ask polite questions like 'have you ever cut your hair' and i can answer them proudly saying 'never'. however i have to say that ever since the 9/11 incident i have a lot more people staring and making comments behind my back. the majority of these people fall under the catergory of white, teenage poorly educated people that do not wish to see a person but a 'terrorist'. all of my friends respect me and my turban. i personally have not had a lot of racism as i am a 6'3" 200lb singh. people are obviously wary of this and do not say anything. however, i have often seen other singhs being picked on and have tried to do something about it by sticking up for them. i also think that other sikh people should not cut there hair because of the discrimination they face but they should stand proud and wear it with a sense of honour and dignity. all in all i think that a turban should be worn proudly.
Mon Feb 19 20:44:24 2007

S.Singh
I think this is a great topic to address due to the negativity we see in the media with regards to religion and religious symbols. i myself am i turban wearing sikh but i'm not Amritdhari (baptised into the brotherhood of the Khalsa) and i do trim my beard. i find it upsetting when i here girls who say we want partners who don't wear turbans simply judging them on their appearance and not the person.The reason this subject got my interest is because my partner(for the past 2 yrs) is not a sikh or panjabi and she's had no problem with my Kesh (uncut hair) and neither have her family instead she has taken more of an interest in learning about my faith and culture, i think this only shows how shallow and sad some (not all) of my 'sisters' are, but in the eyes of some people i'd be seen as 'sell out' because my partner isn't panjabi, but personally i class the shallow girls as the 'sell outs'.
Mon Feb 19 20:34:30 2007

N Singh, Walsall, West Midlands
I am 27 and have kept my hair uncut since I was born. I went to a predominately white school, consisting of only 2 turban wearing boys in my school year and 1 in the 4 years above. Initially I had a few comments in my first few weeks at school, however I have always been a confident person and handy with my fists and never let it affect me. At uni I loved wearing my turban and couldn’t ever imagine being without it, I also had my fair share of attention from the opposite sex. I could never imagine being out without any of my limbs and my turban is far more important than any of them. Hair is a god given gift who are we to get rid of something that was given to us.
Mon Feb 19 19:16:29 2007

Sarabjoth Kaur Manchester
The Turban-Dastaar a momento of The Das Guru A symbol of religion that every Sikh should be proud to wear. The Shaan and Pehchaan of a true Sikh.It is only with the turban that the Sikh gets his identity or else who's a Sikh and who's a Muslim without it. Today's Sikh generation are to worried about their image that they forget their religous values. As a matter of fact I as a young Sikh teenage girl would prefer a Husband who wears a turban to one who doesn't for the simple reason my grandfather, father, uncle, brother and most importantly The Almighty wear the Dastaar.
Mon Feb 19 16:03:05 2007

Amrit Singh Daffu, Nottingham
Sikhs are the best as well as other religions. They should wear their turban as a sign of respect for the guru and with pride. It is your crown. if someone calls you rasist comments. dont say any back because sikhs believe that everyone is equal!
Mon Feb 19 15:06:44 2007

Amrit Singh Daffu, Nottingham age 17
If someone calls you about your turban. tell them that im not a muslim im a sikh. If not then kick the shit out of them. You are a sikh if you want to be a pig in the next life then carry on they way you are being. Pray be a true sikh, wear a turban and be a good loyal person. If you cut your hair, you are going further away from the guru. Sikhs rule. You are a discrase if you cut your hair!!!!!!!!
Mon Feb 19 14:59:23 2007

Bal, Wolves
After cutting my hair a few years ago i deeply deeply regret it now..after working in my industry i have reached the level of director and feel that i must return to wearing my turban with pride, its taken me several years to understand that it makes no difference whether one wears a turban or not to the outside world, and that people who are rascist or discrimatory will be the same no matter wat u wear or look like, its how one deals with it that counts.
Mon Feb 19 13:22:26 2007

Mr singh Birmingham
My Dastaar "Turban" is my crown its statement to the world that i follow the sikh faith no matter what difficulty
Mon Feb 19 11:26:30 2007

Sukha BIrmingham
You should feel proud to be a Sikha and wear a Dastar. Dont dishonour it. Our Guur's thought long and hard for us to wear it. Dont Drink, Smoke and Eat meat, These are basic things to start being a true Sikh. The biggest intoxication of life is being Sober.
Mon Feb 19 11:07:13 2007

Amarjit (London)
The Turban is a pride and joy for a sikh, being a sikh, my sons wear turbans, and you can always recgonise a sikh, by his turban, in the past sikhs were shot in america by mistaken identity, when the 9/11 occurred. More and more young sikh boys have started to wear turbans, who were clean shaven sikhs to prove their identity, everybody, should be proud of their reglion, i am very proud to be a sikh, and also that my boys have long hair and they wears turbans.
Mon Feb 19 11:05:03 2007

Amarjit (London)
The Turban is a pride and joy for a sikh, being a sikh, my sons wear turbans, and you can always recgonise a sikh, by his turban, in the past sikhs were shot in america by mistaken identity, when the 9/11 occurred. More and more young sikh boys have started to wear turbans, who were clean shaven sikhs to prove their identity, everybody, should be proud of their reglion, i am very proud to be a sikh, and also that my boys have long hair and they wears turbans.
Mon Feb 19 11:04:46 2007

Manjit Kaur from Hertfordshire
I don't believe that parents should force their children to wear a turban or make them amritdhari when they are of a young age. My mums amritdhari and yes she wanted us to be, but we didnt choose that path but that doesnt mean i dont believe in my faith or religion. I go to the gurdwara and my heart and mind is pure when i think of God. Its true religion begins from within. You shouldn't have to justify yourself to someone else. I think most Sikhs confuse religion with culture and tradition and i think thats where most sikhs go wrong.yes religion is a way of living but its also a state of mind, a belief not a uniform. I believe that to be a true Gursikh you do need the commitment to live the rest of your life by the teachings of our Gurus and to do that you need to understand your religion and its not fair on children because they don't understand anything when they are so young. I know of families who had their children take amrit when they were young but then these kids then went on and broke it. By enforcing religion upon someone i believe that one is doing wrong. Our religion isn't about preaching its about learning together.
Mon Feb 19 09:56:50 2007

Narinder, Reading, Berkshire age 38
I wore my turban, proudly, until 5 years ago. The reason I removed my turban and cut my hair was becuse i felt that I was 'tarnished' with the aftermath of 9/11!! I cut my hair and shaved my head to 'blend in' with everyone else. I have recently started to grow my hair again.
Sun Feb 18 22:41:36 2007

Ramanpal Singh , Denmark
Its not as hard to wear a turban in a foriegn country where no one around you appears as you do. Iam a SW Engineer and I proudly carry this identity wherever I go , not just becos its my religious symbol but also becos it distinguishes me from the crowd and get attention. Ironically many people consider shelling off the turban as sign of modernity . But they forget that they are losing their identity within this modern world . Turban also give a great look to my personality and I proudly say iam a TURBANATOR.
Sun Feb 18 19:12:18 2007

Bindi in Birmingham
I have always thought of my dastaar as a fashion item and wear it in different ways. I like the old style with the palha or laar trailing down one side. It is also a sign of my spirituality and signifies me, distinguishes me as a person in my own unique way. I think it is a great fashion accessory which is recognised around the world which isworn by Sikhs, Hindus, Muslims and other people around the world. There are times when ignorant people have taunted me and have called out 'Osama, or Bin Ladin' but this has always been from a distance and never to my face. So my assessment is that its their problem and not mine. But generally I get very good feed back and am accepted as I am with my colourful dastaar. Bindi
Sun Feb 18 16:54:29 2007

Amarjit Singh
Sikhs should be proud of there religion, and hold there heads up high.
Sun Feb 18 16:46:14 2007

Madam Aloo
Turban wearing isnt just practised in Sikhs, Muslims and Hindus also wear this for different reasons. It wouldnt be fair to say that Siks founded/originated the Turban. Do we actually see many young Sikhs wear the turban? Take a walk to the nearest Gurdwara and see how many youngsters are having styles done to their hair, mohicans etc. Its just something which the oldies are concerned about. There is a small number of young people that wear it. People like Juggy D, Jay Sean are opting not to wear one, their really good role models for Sikhs NOT! I think its quite old news that they are making a report on, its all died down a little now.
Sun Feb 18 16:02:52 2007

Sukhvinder Singh Virdee. Wolverhampton, England.
The 10 minutes I take every morning to tie my dastaar is the best reminder of who I am, what I am, where I've come from and most importantly how much pride, love and respect I have for those three things. Please excuse any mistake I make in the folllowing, however, I'd like to give you a recital from the Ardaas, which for me, hammers home all my feelings when tieing my dastaar. Once again, please accept my sincerest apologies for any inaccuracies: Jina Singha Singhniya Ne Thurum Heth Sees Dithe Buynd Bund Kutai Khopriya Luhayiya Chrukriya Te Churiye Aria Naal Churie Ge, Gurdwaraiya Di Secva Layee Kurbaniya Keethiya Turum Nehi Hariye Sikhi Kesaa Swasaa Naal Nibahi Thina Di Kumai Da Thiyan Tur Ke Bolo Ji Waheguru Some of your work at the BBC has been very good. Long may it continue in these troubled times. Sukh
Sun Feb 18 15:06:51 2007

Amandeep Singh, New Delhi
I firmly believe that a turban is the best possible masculine fashion accessory in contemporary times. And if one were to get a bit more real, one would realize that there is no greater honor than having a turban to grace one’s head. Be it England, America, Australia, India or anywhere in the world there is nothing that can be compared to a turban wearing graceful Sikh. I actually pity the girls/women who rush after clean shaven men, for they would probably never get to know the taste of being with a real man. With the fully bearded face and the turban gracing the personality it’s actually a delight to be in the company of such a person. This reminds me of an old saying by the famous George Bernard Shaw, who once said that “ Kiss from a man without beard is like milk without cream “ . And how apt is this in contemporary times, women rushing after clean shaven men would never possibly have the pleasure of a real kiss from a real man.
Sun Feb 18 13:14:53 2007

Mand, Birmingham
I think it is very hard for a Sikh to wear a turban because of the negative stereotpyes associated with it. A lot of Sikh women ask for 'clean shaven' men when looking for a husband, so it is quite hard for a turbaned Sikh to not feel ostrasized. The question here is, is their faith stronger or the Western society that they live in?
Sun Feb 18 13:14:28 2007

Sharan Kaur, West Midlands
I have been wearing my dastaar for 10 years now and I really cannot imagine myself without it. It is what makes me complete. Thankfully, I have never suffered any major form of racism due to my dastaar. Even at school all the kids were at awe about it. I absolutely love it...it is my crown!
Fri Feb 16 21:43:58 2007

Mohinder Singh
The other day I wore a different colour Turban to work and the non-Asian colleagues thought it was smart and complimented me on it. It created a lot of discussion but nothing untoward. It made me feel proud. But it is an individual choice. I’m quite proud to stand out in a crowd. Unless you are really naive, most of the times people can tell I am a Sikh and I’m glad for that and I don’t think you should compromise your identity to suit others - having said that it did take me a while to find that out!! Love peace respect to all the Dastar wearing Brothers and Sisters.
Fri Feb 16 17:49:15 2007

Mohinder Singh
. I do observe today’s society and I notice that head covering just amongst the Sikh community has changed. From the traditional to the fashionable but still managing to cover ones head. On the other hand I also believe that A Singh with a fag in his hand a huge Kara and wearing a dastar is also not fashionable although it can be argued that its not fair singling these guys out but if your going to visible wearing a Dastar then I believe you should endeavour to be a good person/ Sikh both internally and externally. I have also notices an increase of youngsters both men and women wearing the dastar and may I add looking very beautiful. I will keep my Dastar and as I get older I get more spiritual and believe I will keep wearing it until I die. It is part of my culture and relation with Vaheguru and spiritualism. It means more to me day by day it’s not just a head covering.
Fri Feb 16 17:49:02 2007

Mohinder Singh
Great topic - close to my heart. I have been wearing my turban/ dastar for the last 16 years. When I was younger I just followed suit. My Father, grandfather and his father all wore a turban. When we were younger my father gave us an option to have our hair cut I declined but my brother agreed, however unlike a very few guys he didn’t like it and grew his hair back and has been wearing a Dastar probably same length of time as me. When I was younger living in Southall it wasn’t a big thing - no real discrimination. I knew loads of guys that were getting there hear cut for various reasons. I also noticed girls flocked to me and other Turban wearing brothers not to go out with us but treated us like 'brothers'. I think it was a safe option and although I didn’t mind as I was at times the envy of so many guys by just having all these cute girls on my arm. I did however find it difficult to have a relationship because I thought that wasn’t the Singh thing to do. That only dudes and rude boys asked girls out. And with the girls treating us like brothers only reinforced these behaviours.
Fri Feb 16 17:45:25 2007