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It seems like everyone's at it – from politicians to our parents. Can you forgive a cheat?

1Xtra looks at what really happens when we play away as part of our Bare All 07 season.

We speak to Amy who caught her best mate in bed with her boyfriend.

And Ben tells us what he thought when his dad admitted he was having an affair behind his mum's back.

Hear people talk candidly and sometimes harshly about the sport of cheating.

Is cheating ever worth it? Have you ever cheated? Or been cheated on? Could you forgive a cheat? Is someone who cheats loose? Are men born to play away? Is it once a cheater always a cheater?

Teresa
I just do not understand you all, i am left scarred by my husband 13 yr cheating, we divorced and i went on to meet other guys. Nearly every day i fear loss, my children suffered pain watching our past marriage break up, do any of you realize the pain you create when you cheat. The damage you leave. I would never cheat on anyone, if you can do this, you are cold and one day when you least expect it, you will suffer pain from your partner, you will learn what loss is. My partner who i am with now, has not been unfaithful, but he ogles at women, which makes me feel so uneasy, i was once a very confident woman but now, i feel worthless. Think about others before yourself and please stop hurting people